2026

• first time getting a professional massage (full body 50 mins, only slightly awkward, but also very nice)
• first time (queer) speed dating (less exciting than I thought, but also more chill)
• first time choosing a shared apartment with my girlfriend/partner and moving in together (super exciting, but also exhausting - so much to do)
• first time visiting Berlin (not very pretty, but the zoo was cool)
• first time having VIP tickets for a concert (totally worth it, great view and q&a was cool)
• first time seeing Ninja Sex Party live! (it was so awesome! I'm a fan now, thanks sis)
• first time deciding to have a open relationship / living poly (very exciting and new)
• first time seeing a professional queer comedian live (Ashley Gavin - I laughed a lot)
• first time going on a date in my open relationship (exciting and hot)
• first time going to a burlesque show - and being flirted at by one of the dancers because I know her from nerd conventions x3
• first time dancing on a stage with lots of people watching and not really care (at a burlesque show)

2025

• first time seeing Dan and Phil live on tour!!! (can't even)
• first time being shown in a Dan and Phil video (omg still can't believe it)
• first time going to Disneyland!!! (so awesome)
• first time visiting France (not that interesting, also please I don't speak French)
• first time having a stranger over for queer couch surfing (less awkward than expected and got a good movie rec/night out of it)
• first time officially graduating in higher education (university for my teaching degree, felt very fancy)
• first time starting a proper job in nursery school (scary but I'm really happy there)