- All or nothing thinking - sometimes called 'black and white thinking'
- "If I'm not perfect I have failed."
- "Either I do it right or not at all."
- Mental filter - only paying attention to certain types of evidence
- Noticing our failures but not seeing our successes
- Jumping to conclusions - falls into two key types
- Mind reading - imagining we know what others are thinking
- Fortune telling - predicting the future
- Emotional reasoning - assuming that because we feel a certain way what we think must be true
- "I feel embarrassed so I must be an idiot"
- Labeling - assigning labels to ourselves or other people
- "I'm a loser."
- "I'm completely useless."
- "They're such an idiot."
- Overgeneralizing - seeing a pattern based upon a single event, or being overly broad in the conclusions we draw
- "Everything is always rubbish."
- "Nothing good ever happens."
- Disqualifying the positive - discounting the good things that have happened or that you have done for some reason or another
- Magnification (catastrophising) and minimization - blowing things out of proportion, or inappropriately shrinking something to make something less important
- Critical words like "should", "must" or "ought" - can make us feel guilty or like we have already failed
- Also, if we apply "shoulds" to other people the result is often frustration.
- Personalization - placing blame
- Blaming yourself, taking responsibility for something that wasn't completely your fault.
- Conversely, blaming other people for something that was your fault.
Some notes
- My psychiatrist has given me three copies of this poster at different times. Time to refer to it regularly.
- My own inferences:
- Identifying unhelpful thinking styles != passing moral judgment
- I tend towards mental filter, disqualifying the positive and personalization.
- There are lots of overlaps, so an instance of unhelpful thinking falls under multiple styles. (It doesn't mean its a lot worse, though.)
dec 21 2017 ∞
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