please note

i have short term memory

this means that i usually can't remember the names and faces of everyone in groups, nor can i associate names with faces (for the most part)

if i am able to remember group members, it takes a very long time for me to learn and remember them, and even then i may still mix things up

i may also forget to respond to messages or say the same thing multiple times

please don't mock me for this, as it's something that's very hard to deal with for me