- if you're underage in rl/have an underage rp character, don't follow me.
- there are these things called mute/block/turn off RTs/unfollow. if you complain about me I think it would benefit you to do one of those.
- calling me or what I say/do cute triggers me, this word is not acceptable.
- I'm also uncomfortable with the sideways smiley emoji, please try to use it as little as possible.
- don't pat my head, I don't like it.
- if I ever reply shortly please make sure I'm okay. I'd really appreciate it.
- if I intimidate you I'm sorry. if you wanna know something just drop the question in my curiouscat.
- don't pretend to be my friend and like me if you're going to leave me in the dust.
- please don't talk about **pe around me or quote it or things related to it, this is my trigger.
- don't make me angry. do not. try to make me angry. don't do it. just don't.
- any kind of skin-to-skin contact helps me a lot more than talking something out. if I'm upset, please touch me. not sexually. not poking or prodding. sensual or caring touches. things like cuddling with all your limbs or combing your fingers through my hair or scratching my bare back. swaddling me and nudging my paci in my mouth is also good. or stroking my tail and rubbing my ears. please touch me to help me feel better, it helps me a lot more than any fucking shakespeare paragraph ever will. touching me also helps me feel safe and secure. if contact is taken away from me while I'm upset, I /WILL/ start to panic and lose my shit. please do NOT stop touching me if I'm upset, do not pull your hands away. it's my safety net, if it's gone I will be completely frightened and vulnerable for anyone to manipulate. if I'm a stranger to you and I so happen to make you uncomfortable with this, ask someone who knows me for help immediately. I can't stress this enough. contact is my help, not counseling.
- about my neck: my throat is NOT something you force your hand around; if you squeeze it at all, just do it as gently as you can. this part of me is completely fragile and I can be triggered if you so much as sneak your hand around it without warning. please use every bit of caution you can if you want to touch it. kissing/biting is completely okay (I love hickies) but please use your hands wisely. the back of my neck is a different story; you can do anything from scratch it to holding me down, dig your fingers in, anything as long as it's the BACK of my neck. but do not. under any circumstances. choke me. that is only reserved for one person I completely trust and I would rather NOT be put into shock/triggered/go into a panic attack cause you think it would be nice to squeeze my windpipe. don't.
mar 23 2016 ∞
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