FIRSTLY: i don't use social media except youtube and discord anymore. i'm @victorynein on both but i'm not gonna talk to you if i don't know you. if i ever decide to use any social media again, i'm not publicizing what app/site or my username. the following was written under the assumption that i have recently befriended you and given you the link to this list

• i can't articulate myself very well so i frequently go back and edit posts to clarify things. if you see a post i made and thought it said something different earlier it probably did
• i say slurs That I Can Reclaim sometimes (mostly faggot and retard). this is always directed at myself and in a jokey self-deprecating manner. if we're talking face to face i won't do it around you if it makes you uncomfortable but if i don't know you or are going to be a jerk about it i'm just going to ignore you
• DO NOT VENT TO ME UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES it makes me extremely uncomfortable and i am going to assume you are trying to make me feel bad on purpose (this isn't out of malice btw i've just had to deal with people like that so often that now it's my instinct to think so)
• DO NOT TALK TO ME ABOUT CURRENT EVENTS (I.E. WARS AND POLITICS) OR GENERATIVE AI UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES these topics make me EXTREMELY angry and i WILL block you if you do it more than once
• i can't handle like any kind of criticism whatsoever so please don't give me any. in return i won't give you any either
• if you knew me back when my name was coral or jules then i probably don't remember you and i probably won't want to talk to you either (unless you're pendulum. hi pendulum)
• i am a selfshipper, age regressor, and witch. despite this i am not in any of those communities because they, like every internet community, are cesspools of toxic waste. of course if you are any of these you are free to follow me but i probably won't follow you back if you regularly engage with the rest of the community
• i don't mean to sound like an incel but almost nobody (other than my dad or my friend charlie) is nice to me nowadays outside of passing interactions and authority figures that have to be nice or else they'll get punished /srs so i apologize if you see me going on a tanget about how much i hate humanity or how everyone hates me. i try to keep it to a minimum
• i use tone tags a lot but if you don't want me to use them or if you want me to use specific ones around you then let me know
• when it comes to characters i am attracted to (sexually or otherwise), i have extremely low standards and the only thing you can really say they all have in common is that they all pass the jack harkness test. i understand if this is a problem with you, but i see no issue so any objections to this will be ignored