โถ Physiological & Physical Health
Sustain your biological foundation โ energy, rest, nourishment, and physical functioning. When this level is solid, you have the vitality to engage in everything else.
- Maintain consistent sleep routine (7โ9h).
- Improve daily nutrition (balanced meals, hydration).
- Exercise regularly (cardio + strength + mobility).
- Prioritize recovery and body care (stretching, massages, rest days).
- Attend annual health check-ups and/or preventive care.
โท Safety & Stability
Build a sense of security โ physical, financial, and emotional. This includes feeling safe in your environment, routine, and resources.
- Strengthen financial base (budgeting, emergency fund).
- Simplify routines and declutter your space.
- Reduce stressors (better time management, realistic schedules).
- Maintain a safe and comfortable home environment.
- Plan regular rest to prevent burnout.
โธ Love, Belonging & Connection
Nurture social bonds, intimacy, and shared experience. Humans thrive on trust, care, and belonging โ these relationships stabilize emotions and motivate growth.
- Deepen one key friendship through regular contact.
- Plan weekly or monthly social moments.
- Express appreciation or affection more often.
- Set healthy boundaries in relationships.
- Engage in community, group activities, or volunteering.
โน Competence, Growth & Autonomy
Feel capable, self-directed, and continually learning. According to modern psychology, autonomy + mastery + purpose = intrinsic motivation and well-being.
- Develop a skill (professional, creative, or practical).
- Learn something new each month (book, podcast, online course).
- Set career or personal projects with clear milestones.
- Strengthen problem-solving or decision-making confidence.
- Build self-discipline around personal priorities.
โบ Self-Esteem & Identity
Cultivate self-respect, authenticity, and confidence in who you are. This includes both internal self-worth and external recognition aligned with your values.
- Practice self-compassion and positive self-talk.
- Identify personal strengths and use them intentionally.
- Celebrate small wins regularly.
- Present yourself in ways that reflect your identity (style, space, expression).
- Reduce comparison and perfectionism habits.
โป Meaning, Purpose & Self-Transcendence
Connect to something larger than yourself โ values, contribution, creativity, or spirituality. This is where fulfillment deepens and life feels coherent.
- Define your top 3โ5 core values for the year.
- Align major goals with those values.
- Volunteer, mentor, or give back in small ways.
- Engage in reflective practices (journaling, nature walks, meditation).
- Create something that expresses your unique perspective (writing, art, teaching).
โผ Integration & Balance
Maintain harmony among all areas โ the โmeta-needโ for coherence and flexibility. You can think of this as your self-regulation system โ how you adapt, rest, and realign.
- Review goals monthly and adjust as needed.
- Notice energy levels and rebalance (work, rest, play).
- Keep digital life tidy (notifications, information diet).
- Celebrate progress without pressure for perfection.
- Practice gratitude or reflection to stay grounded.