- https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/10/17/elizabeth-gilbert-ted-podcast-love-loss/

- i would know him in death: https://grievinggirl.substack.com/p/i-would-know-him-in-death?r=1bakhn&utm_medium=ios

- coming to terms: https://grievinggirl.substack.com/p/ive-missed-you-longer-than-i-knew?utm_source=profile&utm_medium=reader2

- we don’t recover from grief, and that’s okay https://whatsyourgrief.com/grief-recovery-is-not-a-thing/