&` please make sure to check the criteria below if you want to follow me!

• ₁ ⁺ this is a private account, meaning i am not obligated to follow back, and i will softblock anyone i don't know, or anyone who isn't a friend of a friend. if i follow you first, however, you're all good!
• ₂ ⁺ remember! i am 18 (meaning that i am a legal adult where i live), so if that makes you uncomfortable, please do not follow me!
• ₃ ⁺ if you have something serious to talk to me about, please include the topic in the initial "we need to talk message", because only seeing the words "we need to talk" leads me to overthink, get really anxious, and mentally calculate every possible thing it could potentially be about.
• ₄ ⁺ that being said, honesty is the best policy! if i do something that irks you or makes you uncomfortable, please tell me, and i will make sure to tell you in case of the same. i am always willing to grow and learn and better myself each and every day!
• ₅ ⁺ i struggle with anxiety, depression and adhd, so i often have really down days, tend to panic easily / overthink a lot, and hyperfixate on things + have focus / forgetfulness issues. if i vanish and don't reply for a while, i'm not ignoring you intentionally; i'm probably either too burnt out to reply, doing something else, or forgot / lost the message.

&` do not follow if you:

• ₁ ⁺ are racist, a trump supporter, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, etc.
• ₂ ⁺ do not agree with the acab / blm movement.
• ₃ ⁺ blatantly hate on the things i like (mxtx novels, kpop, erha, etc). i get that you have opinions of your own, but if you can't be respectful about it, then i don't think you'd be very well off following me.
• ₄ ⁺ have had drama with me / disliked me in the past, unless we've put that history behind us.
• ₅ ⁺ dislike me. why on earth would you follow me if you didn't even like seeing me around?
• ₆ ⁺ just want to talk shit. really? why?

ask to follow if you:

• ₁ ⁺ would like to be friends!
• ₂ ⁺ share a common interest with me (mxtx, 2ha, xianxia/xuanhuan/wuxia novels, anime, kpop, etc.)
• ₃ ⁺ are a good friend of one or more of my friends.

&` please tag:

• ₁ ⁺ gore, especially gory / bloody images.
• ₂ ⁺ pictures of any sort of bugs save for butterflies, moths, dragonflies, or ladybugs.
• ₃ ⁺ heavy nsfw (i can take a joke / mild nsfw, but nothing more than that).

&` i tag:

• ₁ ⁺ anything you need, all you have to do is let me know if you need something tagged!