• get a facial
• get my hair cut and highlighted
• go to a yoga class
• join a gym
• go to the library and browse
• hang out in a coffee shop for hours
• take up swimming

Long hair

• Villanelle pink dress look

Short hair

• Connell from normal people

• jazz singing
• different styles of dance
• sewing/making my own clothes
• take a formal cooking class
• woodworking
• vegetable and herb gardening
• reading the natural world
• knowledge of constellations
• video production
• web design/html
• photo editing (lightroom)
• data visualization
• graphic design
• swimming laps

china

• suzhou
• shanghai
• hong kong

france

• aix
• nantes
• colmar
• mont st michel
• bordeaux
• st malo
• marseille again

canada

• nova scotia/canadian maritimes
• st john
• banff
• trans canada railroad
• quebec city
• montreal

paris

• museum of natural history
• ✔ pompidou
• st martin flea market

new york

• ✔ see a show
• ✔ natural history
• statue of liberty
• walk all of manhattan

• fall leaves
• gummy worms
• buying new clothes
• getting mail
• singing with friends
• making music
• my parents house
• feeling cozy
• cooking a nice meal
• candles
• running outside
• dancing
• being hugged/held
• holding a warm cup
• re-watching movies
• harry potter
• lord of the rings
• cats and dogs
• getting a massage or haircut
• donuts
• writing a long email to someone

• scotland 2004
• montreal with family in 2007
• west coast college tours with rob (Seattle, SF & LA) oct 2010
• marseille weekend feb 2013
• london & ireland feb 2013
• road trip w/ mark 2014
• lens/paris march 2015
• visiting Anna in Tennessee 2015
• tijuana & LA sept/oct 2015
• portland maine with chats - dec 2015
• nyc to visit Eva - jan 2016
• ireland with sierra - april 2017
• iceland with rob - june 2018
• paris & berlin with Dom - july 2019

• London
• Marseille
• Chicago
• New York
• Montreal

• reading and everything that goes with: books, magazines, libraries, book clubs, bookstores
• animals: cats, dogs, goats
• foreign languages & cultures but especially french, arabic
• music: r&b, rap, hip hop, soul, oldies, choral music, folk/bluegrass
• politics, current events
• stand-up comedy, live theater
• visual arts, both in formal and informal settings
  • contemporary/political
  • impressionist
  • early 20th cent. european

• Summer Ink (summers 2010, 2011, 2012)
• various babysitting things
• Pampanin Law Offices (intermittent 2011-2020)
• SU Learning Assistance Programs (tutoring -- fall 2012)
• American Corner of Grenoble lol (Jan-May 2013)
• The farm in Daoulas (June 2013)
• SU Education Abroad (Sept-June 2013-2014)
• Ellenos (Sept 2013 - Dec 2014)
• Dar Si Hmad (Jan-March 2015)
• Le Panier(May-Sept 2015)
• IIIC (Nov 2015-Present)
• One World Now (seattle - 2015)
• WA Environmental Council
• cafe Madeleine for a hot sec
• Full circle farm
• Holy Donut

• portuguese
• russian
• spanish
• german
• italian
• mandarin chinese
• arabic
• haitian kreyol

• Harry and the Potters
• Santigold
• The Luxury
• Coldplay (x2)
• Br'er Sun
• Silversun Pickups
• Special Explosion
• Wallingford house show:
  • the hague
  • zooey deschanel girl band
• Sound Off
  • Feet
  • The Deep Wake
  • Nude
• Quadstock
  • Pickwick
  • Bearbot
  • Tomten

• Daisy & Benjamin (The Curious Case of Benjamin Button)
• Joon & Sam (Benny & Joon)
• Allie & Noah (The Notebook)
• Kate & Sam (Holes)
• Amélie & Nino (Amélie)
• Harvey & Scott (Milk)
• Johnny & Baby (Dirty Dancing)
• Bourne & Marie (The Bourne Identity/Supremacy)
• Doug & Claire (The Town)
• Ed & Sandra (Big Fish)
• Forrest & Jenny (Forrest Gump)
• Tom & Summer (500 Days of Summer)
• Ben & Emily (Seven Pounds)
• Jamal & Latika (Slumdog Millionaire)
• Elizabeth & Albert (The Kings Speech)
• Charlene & Micky (The Fighter)
• Patrick & Angie (Gone Baby Gone)
• Jack & Rose (Titanic)
• David & Elise (The Adjustment Bureau)

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• candlesticks
• linen bedsheets
• brass bedframe
• crafting area with a big table, little muji boxes, sewing machine, bulletin board with inspiring images and cards etc
• herbs growing in the kitchen, cookbooks on display
• pots and pans, mitts hanging
• all my fav books
• big round mirror
• tasteful amount of houseplants
• a cat and a dog
• hoop house vegetable garden
• ducks or chickens?
• lots of blankets, big quilts
• big art pieces
• bird cage with plants or books

• ✔ learn some spanish
• ✔ become fluent in french
• ✔ come out
• ✔ date people
• ✔ go to therapy
• ✔ have a "real" job
• ✔ save some money
• ✔ pay off student debt
• ✔ get better at cooking
• ✔ become more politically active
• ✔ learn more about immigration system
• ✔ make new friends
• ✔ learned how to be a professional
• ✔ improved relationship with my family/parents
• ✔ lived in north cambridge/somerville like i always wanted
• ✔ got to know boston a lot better
• ✔ got a lot better at driving

• ✔ read the next ferrante novel while it's still summer out
• reread Americanah, All the Light We Cannot See, Grads in Wonderland
• read about Mexico before going - esp historical novels
• ✔ read Tana French when it gets fall-y/spoopy
• ✔ Read Pachinko over xmas?
• ✔ Murakami also maybe good for fall, or that Ruth Ozeki book
• Read books Megan gave me so I can stop feeling guilty !!
• Celeb memoirs on audiobook (JVN, Adam Rippon, Janet Mock)
• Read little women before the movie comes out
• Jeannette Winterson for when I'm feeling nostalgic
• ✔ A Little Life

• queer history
  • ✔ stonewall
  • aids
  • harvey milk
  • james baldwin
  • audre lorde
  • jeanette winterson
  • freddy mercury
  • conversion therapy
• france-algeria war
• russian revolution
• rwandan genocide
• latin american authors
• apartheid in south africa
• palestine/israel
• redlining/racism in american domestic policy (aka everything)
• the arab spring
• ✔ the troubles
• womens sexuality/feminism (always)

• solo trip (japan?)
• long distance hike
• woofing
• spanish immersion
• some kind of work experience in journo or photojournalism?
• new zealand work/travel visa
• asia travel

• get better at picture-taking
• win another photo contest
• get involved in local politics
• find a sport/fitness activity that i am good at and can compete in
• get better at drawing
• be in a band
• have a cat
• do a spanish immersion experience
• go back to the baltics
• live in london
• live in brittany or marseille
• big brother/big sister or some other kind of mentoring program
• visit japan
• climb a mountain
• pen pal
• be on some kind of board (nonprofit etc)

emotionally

• i'm a bit more guarded, less willing to be my full self with others right off the bat
• at the same time i'm more outgoing and can appreciate the value of other people even if we aren't particularly close
• more willing to say no to people
• more open to trying new things
• i understand that idealism has to be met with pragmatism and that equation doesn't always result in the outcome you'd like
• i care a lot less about what strangers/ the general public think of me, and a lot more about what friends and family think of me (as in I value those relationships and want to be my best self for them)

physical

• my eyes get really red and dry if i cry, compared to before when it was barely det...

• Los Angeles, CA
• San Francisco, CA
• Paris, France
• New York, NY

• stand-up comedian/SNL performer
• president
• secretary of state
• translator/interpreter (literary or otherwise)
• foreign policy analyst/consultant
• broadway performer
• rapper lol why not
• backup dancer for beyonce
• photojournalist
• literary/film critic

Robin

• goofiness
• opinionated nature
• anxiety
• thin hair
• broad shoulders
• strong legs
• feminist conciousness
• environmental awareness
• good teeth
• not caring what other people think
• love of singing & dancing

Iain

• introversion
• impatience
• work habits
• ambitiousness
• curly hair

• la haine
• amélie
• intouchables
• l'homme qui voulait vivre sa vie
• parlez-moi de vous
• ne le dis à personne
• nos jours heureux
• les parapluies de cherbourg
• paris je t'aime
• l'auberge espagnol
• les choristes
• délicatesse

• Taking a long time to get ready and being really thorough about my hair and outfit and everything
• Being confided in
• Eating something new and LOVING it
• Taking tights off after wearing them all day
• Being appreciated for something (that I care about being good at) without asking for it
• Long messages, emails, or letters from people
• Discovering that someone possesses one of my valued traits (see other list)
• Completing things I've been putting off
• Doing laundry or dishes
• Thoroughly cleaning my (or any) room
• Finding the perfect gift for someone
• Good hair days
• Being really, really tired and lying down at the end of the day

• speak french
• bake
• drive stick
• sing
• take nice pictures
• be funny
• listen and respond well
• run long distances
• braid hair
• makeup
• public speaking/performing
• draw
• navigate
• plan
• write
• assemble H-1B's lol
• critique writing (thanks, wex -_-)
• hug and cuddle

• Logan International Airport (BOS)
• Seattle-Tacoma International Airport (SEA)
• Long Beach Airport (LGB)
• Oakland Airport (OAK)
• O'Hare International Airport (ORD)
• Orlando International Airport (MCO)
• Hartsfield–Jackson Atlanta International Airport (ATL)
• Los Angeles International Airport (LAX)
• Paris-Charles de Gaulle Airport (CDG)
• Baltimore-Washington International Airport (BWI)
• Philadelphia International Airport (PHL)
• Glasgow International Airport (GLA)
• San Francisco International Airport (SFO)
• Keflavik International Airport (KEF)
• London Gatwick (LGW)
• Lyon Saint-Éxupery (LYS)
• Dublin International Airport (DUB)

• nieman @ harvard
• crosscut fellowship
• fulbright natgeo
• women photograph https://www.womenphotograph.com/mentorsh...
• mother jones fellowship

• organize photo library
• stocks & retirement account
• ✔ review books
• draw, paint, collage
• catch up on shows
• catch up on books
• take photos
• ✔ exercise videos
• cook through a cookbook
• ✔ journaling, collaging
• write letter to someone
• ✔ go through my boxes and purge
• tiny furniture
• baking: rasp thumbprint cookies, scones
• hair and skin treatments, masks
• pickle things
• make playlists
• grow veggies from compost
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• improv
• stand up comedy
• bumble bff
• meetups
• choir
• political campaigning or groups (DSA etc)
• language groups
• take a class
• gay stuff
• queeret
• silent book club
• book events
• dance classes
• swim team?
• mutual aid network

• soup stock
• bread (many varieties)
• paella
• roast chicken
• marinara sauce
• steak
• burgers
• poached egg

• ✔ love actually
• slumdog millionaire
• howls moving castle
• titanic
• ✔ LOTR

anna

• hard working
• manages time well
• makes others feel welcome and loved
• enjoys things fully
• warm and friendly with strangers
• reads a lot and really takes in what she reads
• critical thinker
• always advocates for women
• has great taste in clothes/decorations/home goods etc
• texts back quickly/good communicator

grace

• optimistic
• good listener
• always has new movies/music etc to recommend
• never ashamed to like what she likes/doesn't let criticism get to her

• read more regularly
• join a choir
• get back into improv
• learn violin again
• learn piano
• sing in a band
• get into yoga
• learn to salsa dance
• be a faster runner
• do a long distance hike (PCT/appalachian/Camino de Santiago)
• create more visual art (collage, painting, drawing)
• write song lyrics/poetry
• take more photos
• cook more regularly
• discover new music
• get better at spanish
• use french more regularly

• amy poelher
• chris pratt
• aziz ansari
• harris wittels
• steve carell
• john mulaney
• demitri martin
• amy schumer
• gad elmaleh
• bo burnham
• tina fey
• kate mckinnon
• maya rudolph
• vanessa bayer
• kenan thompson
• kristen wiig
• andy samberg
• DO MI NIQUE
• mark
• christina oneil
• kelsey mcgarry

• desktop bg one
• dog w/ cone one (Michael sowa)
• MENA portraits one
• slowartday/that one with all the links
• ana teresa fernandez
• Ramiro gomez

• ✔ boyhood
• calvary
• grand budapest hotel
• snowpiercer
• gloria
• east is east
• four lions
• a separation
• The Yacoubian Building
• Ali Zaoua: Prince of the Streets
• The Cow
• ✔ Wadjda
• Once Upon a Time in Anatolia
• Incendies

• public transportation
• doing the dishes
• filling out paperwork
• making sample trays
• sending appointment reminders
• laundry

• sense of humor and being able to laugh at one's self
• open-mindedness
• creativity and/or aesthetic sensibility
• good hugs
• balance of cynicism and idealism
• an ability to understand abstract ideas
• self-awareness
• capacity for empathy
• listens without comparing to self
• enthusiasm
• well-balanced outlook on drugs/alcohol
• reliable
• being able to pick one's battles
• assertive

• ✔ Newport, RI
• ✔ Portsmouth, NH
• Great Barrington, MA
• ✔ Burlington, VT
• ✔ North Adams, MA
• Provincetown, MA
• Providence, RI
• ✔ Walden Pond, Concord, MA
• Bridge of Flowers, Shelburne Falls, MA
• ✔ Acadia National Park, ME
• Nantucket, MA
• Mystic Seaport, CT
• ✔ Pawtuckaway State Park, NH
• Quebec (Montreal/Quebec City)

• t.s. eliot
• pablo neruda
• e.e. cummings
• john keats
• elizabeth barrett browning
• alfred lord tennyson
• emily dickinson

• sage
• ruth
• ida
• leslie
• oliver
• gordon
• logan
• martin
• carl
• lucas
• delaney
• louis
• anderson
• elliott
• jackson
• jasmine
• flora
• caroline

• headshots (for theatre or yearbooky type things)
• whip hill
• rain (boots&umbrellas)
• from different eras (make it look like 1960s or 40s or whatever)
• try different films at different times of day
• dancey ones (find someone...)
• performance photos?
• journalistic type things
• magnifying glass
• throw objects at people
• falling onto bed
• bubbles
• people and christmas lights; long exposure?
• hilight specific features with flashlight (Double exposure- two different people?)
• Music modifying the same picture

• In Our Bedroom After The War - Stars
• The Dust Of Retreat - Margot & The Nuclear So and So's
• Costello Music - The Fratellis
• Everything In Transit - Jack's Mannequin
• Fearless - Taylor Swift (not even going to try denying it)
• Continuum - John Mayer
• The Best Party Ever - The Boy Least Likely To
• The Boy Who Knew Too Much - Mika
• Life In Cartoon Motion - Mika
• Contra - Vampire Weekend
• Far - Regina Spektor
• Begin to Hope - Regina Spektor
• Feel Good Ghosts - Cloud Cult
• Vingt Chansons D'Or - Edith Piaf
• Manners - Passion Pit
• Viva la Vida - Coldplay
• The Heist - macklemore
• Days Are Gone - HAIM