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  • celebrate phoebe and i's fifty-year anniversary
  • have the whole shebang bottom surgery
  • see my friends one-on-one my whole life
  • write a booky
  • perform (something: pole, burlesque, stand-up)
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  • asymmetrical care
  • friendship top
  • cooling-off period
  • catalog of connections
  • beacons
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  • prologue: jsun

when the protagonist compares herself to everyone and it sucks

  • sesp

then she learns about how there is much to set right in the world

  • go cats

workaholic tries to solve it (and meets her bfff)

  • coffee chat

takes a job at a stupid screw company and operationalizes her social interactions

  • leave

says screw this and sees the world and the stupid screw company will never be big enough for her

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like pearl of the orient,

  • misser of friends you haven't seen in a while,
  • cheeky corporate spreadsheetress in a long dress,

and for those counting, care is a transaction where both people give

  • a writer,
  • tangping, tanghulu,
  • jade rabbit,
  • sunflower-sweet,
  • little girl with her hair all cute,
  • could go to hell but we'll probably be fine,
  • all-American Chinese in this beautiful country,
  • free to go,
  • animated by scarcity,
  • playful pole dancer,
  • aspiring polyglot of platonic love langua...
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S Tier

  • Medicare, Medicaid - (omg what if we stopped letting poor people and old people and old poor people didn't just die because they can't afford healthcare
  • Social Security - classic consumption smoothing, loved by economists and everyone who's ever worked alike

A Tier

  • The Sherman Antitrust Act (original form) - i s2g the worst excesses of capitalism occur when corporations wield state power and this says no thanks (has since been neutered by the judges)
  • SNAP - everyone should have food. no work restrictions PLEASE. being included in farm bills in perpetuity is genius
  • Civil Rights Act of 1964 - everyone should be able to vote
  • Obergefell v. Hodges - and have the optio...
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  • pole dance flippy upside-downy
  • writing a short story on food sovereignty, care, and big ag
  • writing an essay on abundance
  • kinky dungeon-y things
  • reading (last read: How Do You Live?)
  • cataloging social relationships
  • trying to understand social interactions
  • shaving
  • trying to be ~part of [friends'] worlds~
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  • 2018 - Lorde, Liability

but all that a stranger would see / Is one girl swaying alone, stroking her cheek

  • 2020 - Jhene Aiko, While We're Young

You know I'll go, I'll go / Everywhere you go (I'll go everywhere you go)

  • 2021 - Frank Ocean, Self Control

Wish I was there / wish we'd grown up on the same advice

  • 2022 - Lucy Dacus, Triple Dog Dare

You're dancing in the aisle / 'Cause the radio is singing you a song you know / And the kid at the counter is gawking at your grace /

  • 2023 - Arlo Parks, Phoebe Bridgers, Pegasus

I spun 'round and screamed, "I feel elate...

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