Warning Signs found so far:

• "When your behavior or choices are motivated by fear, you're never acting from your most powerful self."
• When you truly love and respect yourself, you don't have to hide parts of your personality from a man.
• You can never feel truly powerful when you're dependent on something (or someone) outside of yourself.

REAL Rules to Tell Yourself:

• "I want the RIGHT man for me."
• "I want him to love me for who I REALLY am."
• "I want to make sure he's just what I'VE been looking for."
• "I want to work together to create a healthy, loving, mutually respectful relationship that grows into a commitment so out marriage will last."
• The more self-esteem you possess, the more capable and powerful you feel, and the more you attract the right people in life.
• Don't be scared of rejection for showing who you really are and how you feel! Whenever you share your goodness, your passion for life, and your heart, you always end up winning, because what you put out into the universe WILL come back to you. It's karma.

Real Rules:

• Treat men the way you want to be treated. You two must be equal, with equal responsibility for the relationship.
• If you have one set of rules for how you get to treat a man, but another set if rules for how he has to treat you, you're cheating. Quit it! Be equal.
• Remember that men need as much love and reassurance as you do.