he/him lesbians arent transphobic or harmful in any way and yall need to check your damn lesbophobia that youre masking with flimsy reasoning
you cant reclaim a slur if that slur has never been aimed at your specific identity (ex. a trans man can't reclaim the d slur because its aimed at lesbians)
if you do reclaim a slur dont use it @ others if they arent comfortable with it (ex. dont use the q slur to encompass the entire lgbt community)
cishet(eromantic) aces and cishet(erosexual) aros aren't lgbt
cis aroace ppl aren't lgbt
reverse racism isnt real/you cant be racist to white people
misandry isnt real either
basically all of these things where u can supposedly be oppressive to an oppressor (ie heterophobia, cisphobia) arent real