I am because

• Low libido
• Not interested in porn
• While having sex was more interested in pleasing partner than self
• While in a sexual situation was more interested in the grass and dirt in front of me
• I like the flag
• When thinking of partners it's about wanting them to put me first but doesn't involve sex often
• The idea of sex is weird

I am not because

• I get crushes on people
• I have sexual thoughts sometimes
• Sex feels good
• I want to have sex with more people... though it's because I want more experiences and comparison.
• Being trans probably complicates it.