I want to avoid being sold things. I have many clothes and i want to figure out how i feel about them and wear them and use them up. Maybe i should go try some on now.

• Clothing purchases should be entirely intentional. How necessary is it? I will forgive myself by being swayed by some aesthetics, but it must be a convincing argument anyway. Does nothing in my closet look like it? Is the condition good, is the fabric enduring?

Accept my body as a helpful vessel

Being cool is usually an outside-in approach; if i get these clothes, this room, this visual appeal, i & my life will make sense.

Values are beautiful and i want a better view of what they are

Specific self destinations don't lead to success. For development, create new conditions in which new personhood might happen- don't force an ideal on yourself.

If you want to change something about yourself, you really won't until you accept what you hate.

You do not need to be like the things/people/items you are consuming.

Inner child work...