- When you think of the person more often than not. GUILTY.
- When you think about him/her even though you don’t want to. GUILTY
- When you keep mentally reliving past memories with him/her, usually the happy/sweet ones. GUILTY
- When he/she comes to mind the first instant when you are down and out. GUILTY
- When you still have questions and resignations about the past. You wonder what could have been or why didn’t it turn out a certain way. GUILTY
- When you assign blame for the way things turned out, whether it’s to him/her, yourself or the circumstance. GUILTY
- When thought/sight of him/her trigger certain emotional reactions, such as aversion, anxiety, frustration, resignation. GUILTY
- When you keep trying to improve yourself because you feel you were not good enough (for him/her). GUILTY
- When you have a desire to spite him/her, as a way of making him/her regret for whatever happened. GUILTY
- When you often bring up the person in your conversations, even when there is no relation. GUILTY
- When you have a desire or urge to contact him/her even though you previously told yourself you didn’t want to. GUILTY
- When you find yourself living out the same looping patterns. GUILTY
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