if I softblocked you, there are several reasons why I may have done so.

• something on your BYF list precludes me from interacting with you. for instance, you don't want adults or cope shippers following you. if that's the case, I will assume that either you're hate-following me, or you just didn't read my listography. either way, not someone I want following me.
• something about you makes me uncomfortable. maybe your views on certain social issues that affect me don't align with mine, or maybe there are just things on your blog that I really don't want to have to see.
• you have a lot of interactions with someone who has hurt me or one of my friends. this one's self-explanatory.