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Remember that all suffering is made up by your & others' heads ("pain is inevitable, suffering is optional"). Remember that state of serenity on Oct 22-23, 2019 as a truly healthy state. And gently steer yourself into doing 3/3/3+1 with curiosity, self-compassion, mindfulness, the learning-goals approach instead of the performance-goals approach where possible (Er. S.' stuff helps!)

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will work only once a year; imperfect films with some fun/great/therapeutic/human-warmth scenes OR perfect films

not sure they are remedies though. they might express what I feel or give me what I need in terms of human warmth, but this, in turn, might actually increase the hunger/need -> make me less functional.

most of them aren't realistic enough to learn life lessons from them

in random order

  • Meet Joe Black (1998)
  • Hallam Foe (2007) / Mister Foe
  • Big (1988)
  • Forrest Gump (1994)
  • Stealing Beauty (1996, Bertolucci)
  • Notting Hill (1999)
  • Two Weeks Notice (2002) - Sandra Bullock & Hugh Grant
  • Mad Dog and Glory (1993) - Robert de Niro & Uma Thurman
  • Great Expectations (1998)
  • Crush (2001, UK)
  • Adam (2009)
  • Intimate Strangers / Confidences trop intimes (2004, Patrice Leconte)
  • Kissing Jessica Stein (2001)
  • (tiny pieces of) Puccini for Beginners (2006)
  • Lars and the Real Girl (2007)
  • Kyss Mig (2011), part 1
  • Nelly & Monsieur Arnaud / Nelly et Monsieur Arnaud (1995, Claude Sautet)
  • The Closet / Le placard (2001, Francis Veber)
  • Moonlight and Valentino (1995)
  • Boudu (2005)
  • Ida (2013)
  • ? forgot
jan 11 2014 ∞
jul 1 2016 +