JANUARY

The romance of the home is inextricably intertwined with the romance of knowing and being known.

Even alone, on a mountain full of sheep, Benjamin was Benjamin

Children don’t need to earn their humanity. Children aren’t humans in training, they are humans right now. They’re not waiting to live their life, this is part of their life in this moment.

A knight is a humiliation-seeking device,

FEBRUARY

I did want it—I just thought I wasn’t allowed.

I need you to know: I hated that I needed more than this from him. There is nothing more humiliating to me than my own desires. Nothing that makes me hate myself more than being burdensome and less than self-sufficient.

There are worse things than not receiving love. There are sadder stories than this.

MARCH

Nope. Vaginas are not special sanctuaries, holy places to be kept empty of all but the divine presence in the form of the penis. I can’t believe I had to write that sentence.

APRIL

MAY

Virtually everything we do, everything we are, is transmuted now into digital information[...]—all of it observed by no one in particular, all of it reduced to data parsed for the patterns that will predict our purchases.

I’m shy, and while I was mildly concerned about what people might think of me when I began dining alone, I was more concerned about what I might think of me if I didn’t try. I didn’t want to be someone who experienced less of a city, less of life, because I was afraid. So I went.

JUNE

Those of us who want to protect the eel in order to preserve something genuinely mysterious and enigmatic in a world of enlightenment will, in some ways, lose no matter how things turn out,

Which is to say that, as it turns out, the world’s first emo album isn’t actually as melodramatic or self-absorbed as we were primed to believe. It was a rallying cry for us to pick our feelings up off the floor, get our personal shit together, and do our part to make a lasting, meaningful political change. Is there a word for that?

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