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• I must be impressive and attractive to survive.
• I must be knowledgeable to survive.
• I must be fun and entertained to survive.
• I must be secure and safe to survive.
• I must be strong and in control to survive.
• I must be perfect and good to survive.

Type 3, with a sexual variant and 5 wing

• Threes derive self-worth from external success.
• They are highly skilled in adapting in order to gain accolades.
• 3's often lose sight of their own feelings to achieve goals.
• Assertive and intense

What I like about being a three

• Being optimistic, friendly and upbeat
• Providing well for my family
• Being able to recover from setbacks and charge ahead to the next challenge
• Staying informed ; knowing what's going on
• Being competent and being able to get things to work efficently
• Being able to motivate people.

What's hard about being a three

• Having to put up with inefficiency or incompetence.
• The fear of not being - or not being seen as - successful.
• Comparing myself to people who do things better.
• Struggling to hang onto my success
• Putting on facades in order to impress people
• Being "on" all the time. It's exhausting.

Threes as parents

• Are consistant, dependable and loyal
• Struggle between wanting to spend time with their children and wanting to get work done
• Expect their children to be organized and responsible.