also known as, making me look like a cold-hearted human once again

  • I must be impressive and attractive to survive.
  • I must be knowledgeable to survive.
  • I must be fun and entertained to survive.
  • I must be secure and safe to survive.
  • I must be strong and in control to survive.
  • I must be perfect and good to survive.

Type 3, with a sexual variant and 5 wing

  • Threes derive self-worth from external success.
  • They are highly skilled in adapting in order to gain accolades.
  • 3's often lose sight of their own feelings to achieve goals.
  • Assertive and intense

What I like about being a three

  • Being optimistic, friendly and upbeat
  • Providing well for my family
  • Being able to recover from setbacks and charge ahead to the next challenge
  • Staying informed ; knowing what's going on
  • Being competent and being able to get things to work efficently
  • Being able to motivate people.

What's hard about being a three

  • Having to put up with inefficiency or incompetence.
  • The fear of not being - or not being seen as - successful.
  • Comparing myself to people who do things better.
  • Struggling to hang onto my success
  • Putting on facades in order to impress people
  • Being "on" all the time. It's exhausting.

Threes as parents

  • Are consistant, dependable and loyal
  • Struggle between wanting to spend time with their children and wanting to get work done
  • Expect their children to be organized and responsible.
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