- Clarify what you're feeling- identify the message
- Use the pain to challenge you
- Identify what you need to change- your perception or your procedure
- Take action to the direction which you want
- To get prepared mentally
- To avoid if you have to
- To use meaning
- NB: If guilt, check if it's something you should feel guilty over. Don't deny it.
- To take control of the event
- To not settle for less than you can be
- To strongly and courageously know what you're not willing to stand for
- To gradually act more on what you practically value and gradually grow
- KaNaI to all areas of life
- To not reflect on the past
- To create new scenarios in life
- Select them carefully and intelligently
- To not lose perspective and balance
- "What seemed to be a horrible event turned out to be a benefit"
- To break out of our fears.
- To focus on the good things
- To focus on who you'll become
- To focus on how you're going to live your life.
- To be positive about the outcomes and not problem.
- To decide to become more curious, not judgemental
- To look at the advantages and disadvantages of both
- To focus on what's most important in your life
- To look away from what you're missing out on
- Ask questions; try to not stop asking
- Try to change in a non-linear pattern; more cyclically.
may 15 2012 ∞
may 16 2012 +