i just don't get how some people's ideal types in finding 'the one' are like someone who has a great physique, whose charismatic, someone who does this blah blah blah etc. shouldn't ideals be more focused on personalities and abilities with household chores, not just for guys but for the gals too, such as someone who knows how to handle children, knows good family planning, does not have anger issues, etc. it's like “oh yeah, he/she yells at our child, abusive sometimes, but that's okay as long as he/she can cook >√>”, “oh he/she cheated? well, that's alright as long as i can see his/her great physique and i'll be fine”. i mean, cooking is also a plus — atleast for those whose love language is an act of service, but personally, it does not really matter for me and that's for me. common ideal types wouldn't really matter in the long run. and if you are one whose ideal types are just questionable, you gotta think about what the family you're gonna build with that person be like if you don't change what your ideals are.

01/24/22 | 09:10 PM