• 39 years old
• She/Her , but kinda don't care; I get They/Them'd a lot in public and find it endearing.
• Italian/Japanese/Misc White
• Christian
• Gray/Demi Aro/Ace , but enjoy fictional relationships (nsfw fine provided it's tasteful)
• Not diagnosed but most likely suffering from some level of Autism , and ADHD with severe RSD breakdowns

I tightly curate my social media spaces. I generally try to avoid repost/reblog-heavy blogs. Please don't be offended if I don't do follow-backs.

Due to suspected RSD, I tend to either stick to myself, or find smaller, quieter spaces. I feel less hurt sitting alone in an empty room. I feel tremendously hurt when I feel like I'm being ignored in a large, busy one. I'm best contributing from under my rock; if I'm dragged into the thick of a larger fandom, I get disheartened by my relative invisibility ver...

• Current Hyperfixations - Look Outside (... . . . ? )
• Lesser Current Interests - Risk of Rain, Guilty Gear, Digimon (VPets only)
• Phasing Out of Hyperfix - Vampire Survivors

I like to contribute and interact with mature and reasonable people, but rampant negativity, terminally online brainrot, and behind-the-scenes shit-talking bleeding out and turning into second-order drama and harassment makes it very hard to exist in fandom spaces right now.

Sore spot fandoms that I'd rather not discuss - MLP, Undertale, Terraria, Mega Man, Disc Room

• This doesn't mean I refuse to talk about/are offended by them, but I am generally burned out by their communities and will only talk about them with close friends.

If you're blocked on Bluesky, you were probably being rude and contentious about something in a way that made me feel like Muting would not be enough. I also have Moderation block lists and a general DNI for bots/keyword scrapers, AI art, and NFTs. I've also blocked-back some people who were being suspicious (blocking and unblocking and reblocking me in quick succession), though I've given up on keeping tabs with ClearSky because all it does is stress me out.

If you're blocked on Tumblr it's because there's no Mute function there to filter abrasive content that I don't feel like engaging over beyond just wanting to stop seeing it. I also block collection/inspo blogs that reblog my art because I'm super tired of asking people to stop treating my work like clip-art.

If it bothers you, get over it and move on with your life; you'll be happier prete...

I like to remain upfront about being Christian to avoid awkwardness from people assuming I am not one because of my interests and general habits towards tolerating or even supporting things a lot of mainstream 'Christians' violently condemn. I try to be open and accepting of other peoples' beliefs, preferences, self-identity, etc. provided they are not using them as excuses to harm others.

• Automatically shoehorning me in with bigots, or taking broad "all Christians are bad" strokes in my general vicinity is a great way to get me to avoid you.
• Trying to argue with me why you disagree with my beliefs is a great way to get blocked.

To reiterate the post that got buried on Twitter:

• Given the nature of social media and the ...

• if I misgender you, and let me know what you would prefer
• if I get your name wrong , also correct me
• if you need anything tagged (and specify how; mostly applicable to Tumblr as Bsky is not really that good for it due to character limits)
• if I make you uncomfortable with anything (immediately!) (mainly for DM interactions; if I post something you don't like, you should probably just unfollow me, lol)
• if I'm being irritating or otherwise obnoxious and attention-hogging (again, more of a DM thing)

Sorry, no. Discord servers demand an amount of spoons from me that I don't have. I get anxious about keeping up with them... plus it's harder to avoid anyone I've curated out of my social media space. I reeeally don't want to run into people I've blocked. I use it for DMs and that's it.

I am a social vampire. I need to be invited into a space first... but I also need to know that the invitation is being extended mutually by a majority of the other members. If I'm dropped by one person who likes me into the middle of a bunch of people who are going to ignore me because they never asked me to be there, I'm going to shrivel up and leave. If I'm invited into a 3-person chat that includes the presence of ONE extra person who is going to selectively ignore me in favor of the person who invited me, I'm going to shrivel up and leave.

• Tumblr Main
• Art Tumblr
• BlueSky
• Pixiv (rarely updated)
• DeviantArt (abandoned, originally displayed old work until they sided with AI-bros, not sure if I'll bring it back)
• RedBubble (if you want to support me for some reason)

While I am 39, I tend to be fairly reserved in public spaces online and do not post explicit NSFW on main (though suggestive is on the table; I have an NSFW acct, but I do not broadcast it). Also - and you have probably noticed this - my art does tend to trend towards things like gore and/or body horror

• I do not mind interacting with minors over age-appropriate content, but understand that if you are one, I will not be as open and comfortable with you.
• If you do not share your age openly, you will be under heavy scrutiny.
• If I catch you lying about your age, I will block you.

• I don't take requests . I may ask for suggestions if people are mature about it.
• Please don't drop OC refs into my art threads thinking you'll 'inspire' me to draw them.
• If I draw something for somebody, I do so because I want to, not because I want reciprocation. Please don't try to guilt me into unsolicited trades.
  • While I'll never turn down gift art ( I treasure it a lot ), please do not draw things for me if you are only doing so hoping to curry favor for return art .
• Please do not approach me in general if getting art is your primary goal . I have had bad past experiences with people doing this. Trying to get too friendly too quickly is usually a red flag for me, so please understand if I start off DMs in a relatively reserved state.
• Please no "This reminds me of..." comments... I'm tired of them.

I try to be accepting of shipping but would rather avoid public discourse on it.

• DO NOT INTERACT if your ships involve minors , incest , or zoo .
• While I do not outright condemn hateships , I also do not support them. They are usually... unhealthy, to put it lightly. However, what may be considered a hateship in one person's headcanon may not be in another's ; it all comes down to how the relationship is presented and written. Also applies to questionably unhealthy crackships or bulk shipping like there's some kind of quota to fill. I'm not saying these things are inherently wrong , but they make me uncomfortable.
• Totally cool with MLM, WLW, etc. as long as it's healthy and consensual
• I engage with NSFW on my own terms. I do not mind it but please don't approach me with it if we are not already on good, trusting terms with one another.