a mastery list of my own personal criteria, which goes further in-depth than the summarized list displayed onto my carrd. information on here is regularly updated, removed or added based upon my own personal beliefs, preferences and views. please do not interact if you:

  • share your sexual life unprovoked, this includes sexual fantasies, fetishes and other inherently sexual parts of your life
  • justify any taboo kinks, fetishes, fantasies and/or harmful ideologies revolving around sexual interactions
  • politically identify as a republican, conservation or agree with any of the ideologies within those parties
  • associate yourself with other individuals who use slurs they cannot reclaim or you yourself use slurs you cannot reclaim
  • associate yourself with other individuals who are openly transphobic or purposely misgender transgender people
  • frequent usage of the r-slur (even if you can reclaim it)
  • have a feederism fetish, or fetishize chubby/overweight individuals
  • frequently speak about bodily fluids
    • making jokes or frequently speak about piss
    • have a piss kink
    • have a scat kink
  • joke about (unless trauma induced jokes to cope) or justify:
    • incest; including families who are not related by blood (step-siblings, adopted family members, fictional family members or chosen family)
    • pedophilia; including fictionally or using the MAP community as leverage
    • romanticization of unhealthy relationships, especially obsessive behavior, stalking, abuse or other toxic environments
  • romanticize or idolize mental/behavioral disorders
  • continuously engage in drama to dig up someone's personal past issues, especially if they have shown self improvement and have properly apologized for their actions
  • inability to properly communicate and solve tense issues with others
  • ghost or abandon without any reasonings or explanations
  • disrespect or make fun of my interests, if any of them are problematic; please try to educate me and inform me on these issues
  • identify as an endosystem or support those who identify as one
  • against black edits, microlabels or black-only/poc-only communities
  • have an inability to respect boundaries
  • make flirtatious jokes, comments or remarks without consent
  • actively support and play Regretevator or The Axolotl Sun
  • actively support and play Stone-Haven County Asylum
feb 8 2023 ∞
may 10 2024 +