I should put the kin disclaimer above these, first. I'm not Japanese, and I'm not claiming to be. I know saying Tsumiki is "literally me" makes it sound like I am, or I'm ignoring that she's Japanese, which I promise I'm not. In personality and lived experience of abuse she is eerily like me, though, and seeing me-as-her get to be loved and forgiven in canon has literally helped me to manage my eating disorder.