how to get along with me:

• if i seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that i am feeling uncomfortable.
• if i take too long to answer you, it's not intentional. i usually forget things.
• make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or i might doubt your sincerity.
• it's hard for me to put in words a lot of things that go through my mind and i'll probably get annoyed by it. don't push me.
• speak in a straightforward and brief manner. don't come with "guess what", "guess who", i hate that.
• listen to me carefully until i finish speaking, even though i take too long and repeat things.
• don't judge me for my anxiety.
• try not to overreact to my overreacting.
• if you want me to do something, how you ask is important. i don't like expectations or pressure.
• i like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
• let me know you like what i've done or said.
• when it comes to feelings, i am a bit slow. specially romantic feelings. i will seem so stupid you'll doubt i don't know how you feel so PLEASE be straightfoward with your feelings about me. speak directly and not through secret messages. i won't understand those.
• i don't know how close i am to you and you'll probably won't be THAT close to me on the first few months due to my lack of trust. but when i trust you, i'll trust you 'till the end.
• i love complimenting people and i love compliments. i am extremely insecure.