- COMMUNICATION!!
- You MUST communicate your likes and dislikes
- You MUST use "I" language
- If you lie to your S.O. about anything other than her/his surprise birthday party, forget it. You suck as a human being.
- Don't forget the little things- you have no idea how much a $1.99 longstem rose can mean to someone who had a hard day
- Experiment- doing things differently helps you build new memories and new apprieciations for one another. Go somewhere new. Do something neither of you have done before. Go to a different section in the bookstore and see what you find.
- Don't forget things are just things- freaking out over a ruined sweater or a broken vase is totally not worth it. If you're really in love with it, keep the pieces or make something else out of them. (My S.O. made wall art out of my broken jewelry once)
jan 9 2009 ∞
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