this can vary from person to person, but generally, most people will say dni/dnf if you apply to any of the following:

• racist, anti-black, anti-blm, all lives matter (ALM), blue lives matter
• nazi or alt-right
• antisemetic, islamophobic
• xenophobic
• MAPs or "minor attracted person" (aka, a less-striking way to say a __pedophile__)
• fujoshi/fundashi and/or you fetishize mlm/gay relationships/pairings/ships/etc
• romaticise or glorify mental illnesses, eating disorders, or abuse
• ableist (includes those who are against self-diagnosis)
• lgbtphobic /homophobic/transphobic (includes exclusionists!)
• you use slurs you can't reclaim
• pro-ship/anti-anti

please be critical of your interests. nothing will ever be 100% good, perfect, or innocent, so its important to keep in mind the media you consume online. acknowledge that giving problematic media attention and support will affect those who are being negatively affected by that media.

common scenario: you want to listen to an artist's music, but you don't want to support this person(s).

• you can ask someone to give you a downloaded version of the song where you can listen offline, so that you don't give the person any financial gain by streaming or directly having to buy their music.
• download the song(s) yourself with a youtube to mp3 downloader or service
  • this is especially useful/helpful for those who have hyperfixations on songs or artists. autistic/adhd folks cannot help wh...

do not interact/follow if you apply to any of the following:

• against xenogenders/neopronouns, mogai
• against lesbians who use pronouns other than she/her and vice versa for gay men who don't use he/him
• against any non-binary identities
• if you make fun of the way people identify
• TERF (trans-exclusionary radical feminist, who see women as just walking child-bearers), or any brand of feminism that excludes trans women
• claim that trans women are not women or that feminism fights for trans men too
• the feminism you follow has a transphobic community or ideals/rhetoric, and you don't actively call it out or take a stand against it
• people who are neutral about transmisogyny and transphobia are transphobic as well
• have no reservations about being friends ...

do not interact/follow if any of the following apply to you:

• joke about or justify incest in any context, including families who are not related by blood (adopted family, step-siblings, etc)
• joke about or justify pedophilia in any context
• justify or participate in the sexualisation of minors (yes, this includes you, minors in kink )
• justify (or romanticise) abusive or unhealthy relationships

while fiction isn't reality, it does affect our reality and those living in it. it isn't necessarily a 1:1 idea, but it is still highly important to acknowledge how it affects our lives in Our Reality.