- Empathetic
- Care about the feelings of others
- Realistic ideas about lifestyle, intelligence, finances, beauty or romance
- Genuinely interested in helping others
- No sense of entitlement
- No airs of grandiosity; humility & healthy self love
- Other people's lives don't revolve around me
- Love to encourage people to pursue their dreams
- Don't react to criticism with anger, shame or humiliation; don't call them names or get nasty
- Don't take advantage of others to get my goals met
- Don't want constant attention, total oppposite
- Don't envy or resent people for what they have
- Not self-absorved in conversations or relationships; healthy give & take
- Feel uncomfortable talking about myself and my life
- Don't stay in unhealthy relationships; if I sense the relationship is unhealthy I become an observer of the person, not an engager, and eventually pull away
- I'm conscious and accept the consequences of my bad behaviors and actions and own my responsibility
- Don't pretend to be successful or popular when I'm not
- Having a thousand likes on a post doesn't get to my head, on the contrary, it's humbling and makes me question whether I deserve it
- If criticed, I'll examine myself and, if needed, apologize
- No unrealistic ideas about people conspiring to bring me down behind my back
- I care about what people think of me to an extent, but not to the point where I will change who I am for someone else or stop doing hobbies I love doing
- Don't see people as objects
- Compassionate. When someone crosses me, I consider their background and what might be going on in their lives
- Openly vulnerable & talk about my weaknesses
- I believe I don't have all the answers and encourage people to seek other sources of advice
mar 23 2014 ∞
apr 5 2014 +