• Film him teaching you how to fix something his way, not the “right” way.
  • Ask him about the proudest moment of his life, and don’t interrupt while he answers.
  • Record his laugh when he tells one of his old stories.
  • Go for a drive and let him pick the music.
  • Ask him what he was like at your age — you’ll see him differently.
  • Watch his favorite old movie and let him tell you why it mattered to him.
  • Help him with a project he’s been putting off, even if it takes all day.
  • Tell him something he taught you that you’ll never forget.
  • Take a photo of him doing something simple - grilling, reading, smiling — exactly how you want to remember him.
  • Record him saying “I’m proud of you.” You’ll want to hear it again someday.
  • Ask him what his dad was like and what he learned from him.
  • Let him show you a shortcut he swears by — even if it doesn’t actually work.
  • Sit outside together in silence and just share the moment.
  • Tell him you love him, even if you’ve never said it out loud before.

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One day, you’ll wish for one more drive, one more laugh, one more “ I’m proud of you.”

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