#. what ‘basic dni criteria’ means, for me

(note: the specifics don’t matter too much to me. overall, the message is: just be a decent person, please! the below are my own personal opinions & what i’m not comfortable with, but i understand people have different beliefs, and i’m open-minded about that. as long as your own beliefs are not hateful or doing harm to other groups, and that you’re respectful of other viewpoints, you’re probably good in my book! thank you!)

• homophobic (includes biphobia, aphobia, etc)
• transphobic (includes enbyphobia.)
• against neopronouns or xenogenders
• invalidates ppl’s prns, triggers, etc.
• xenophobic
• antisemitic, islamophobic
• racist, anti-black, against blm
• ableist
• sexist or misogynistic
• a map or p/dophile
• sexualize minors
• romanticize mental illness or abuse
• use slurs that you can’t reclaim