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  • Existing Situation: Willing and adaptable. Only at peace when closely attached to a person, group, or organization on a which reliance can be placed.
  • Stress Sources: Feels unappreciated and finds the existing situation disagreeable. Wants personal recognition and the esteem of others to compensate for the lack of like-minded people with whom to ally herself and make herself more secure. Her sensual self-restraint makes it difficult for her to give herself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and merge with another. This disturbs her as she regards such instincts as weaknesses to be overcome; only by not succumbing to them, she feels, can she withstand the difficulties of the situation. Wants to be valued as a desirable associate and admired for her personal qualities.
  • Restrained Characteristics: The situation is preventing her from establishing herself, but she feels she must make the best of things as they are. Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing her to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.
  • Desired Objective: Longs for sensitive and sympathetic understanding and wants to protect herself against argument, conflict, or any exhausting stresses.
  • Actual Problem: Greatly impressed by the unique, by originality, and by individuals of outstanding characteristics. Tries to emulate the characteristics she admires and to display originality in her own personality.
  • Actual Problem #2: Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on her resources. This feeling of powerlessness subjects her to agitation and acute distress. She attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as she desires them to be.
dec 3 2012 ∞
dec 4 2012 +