• think at least one good thing about yourself and say it to yourself
  • let things sit (don't pick at it, let it just be)
  • you can't tell your friends that they're lying when they're saying good things about you that you don't believe
  • breathe and process why you're apologizing in the first place
  • try to open up and understand that people accept and give love differently
  • you are bright intelligent intuitive and have a way with words
  • i don’t understand how someone could be so self-aware and willing to continuously better themselves all while dealing with hard shit in their life???? like you’re actually so amazing????? : )
  • be in the present, look around you and note surroundings when you feel overwhelmed
  • instead of asking for "am i right/are they wrong" ask a different question maybe
  • realize that there are grey areas between the black and the white
  • learn to put things aside
  • don't compare yourself to others since they could be going through worse
  • bad days don't negate good days at all
  • give yourself breaks
  • don't criticize or treat myself harshly
  • set one goal a day whether it be big or small
  • progress can be slow
  • my best is my best
  • you can't do every single thing in one day
  • you need to love yourself and be kind to yourself
  • don't take negative things said as a negative thing about you
  • you can't expect something your parents won't give you
  • you have to look for what you want in better places
  • you can't place too much judgement on yourself
  • sometimes it's good to recognize your feelings and let them be
  • realize that this is all you can do
  • stop with the 'buts' and the 'what if's'
  • start saying 'so what' to scary situations
  • keep processing things that happen but also channel that energy into good outlets
jul 5 2018 ∞
nov 5 2018 +