you can't take and take, even if you feel like you are yet to become full. and yet again, kindness is not a weakness-- it's not throwing yourself the moment you become needed, or desiring to be someone people can call upon. you do the most for others, but you do nothing for yourself. when was the last time you chose YOU???????? and when was the last time that felt truly, honestly good? you felt that other people's problems were so big that yours could hide behind them, and now it is your truth, and you hate yourself for it. do not hate your kindness, cher. hate what it has turned you into.