this is what I consider to be the most "basic" criterias. you can skim this if you'd like, but if you have seen a few byfs you don't have to read it!

• racist, anti-black:
  • against BLM ("ALM" or "Blue Lives Matter")
  • alt-right, (neo)nazi, etc
  • antisemitic or islamophobic
  • xenophobic, sinophobic etc
  • asian fetishizer
• bad faith identities:
  • (NO)MAP, PEAR, Lolicon/Shotacon, pedophile
  • fujoshi, fundanshi (I do not care that they were created as "empowering" identities, as words' meanings change over time)
  • bi/pan/straight "lesbians"
• proshipper:

do not interact if you

• hold romancitizing views:
  • use your mental illness as a part of your personality
  • use your mental illness, not as an explanation, but to justify your harmful behaviors
  • take pride in having a mental illness (not saying that you have to hate yourself, but rather do not take pride in it the same way you wouldn't be proud of having broken your leg)
  • indulge or encourage other people's delusions to the point it harms them
• are anti-recovery:
  • participate in anti-recovery subtwts (shtwt, edtwt, psychotwt, systwt etc)
  • indulge in or encourage your own delusions without reality checking yourself
• apply to anything in the misc section:

Ask to follow if:

• spiritual kinnity:
  • refuse to recognize the closed practice roots of otherkinnity and how it became an internet sensation through misinformation
  • refuse to recognize how "mems" actually harm people when delusion symptoms are overlooked because of this practice
  • refuse to recognize how impressionable young people can mistakenly be led to believe they "spirikin" instead of just being delusional

Do not follow if:

• systems/singlets who:
  • support endogenic & other not-traumagenic systems
  • mystify system existence (such as claiming systems are different people in a past life, claiming fictives are from a different universe, or anything that implies being a s...__trauma response__ )

do not interact if you

• identify with radical feminism in any way:
  • refuse to include trans women in conversations regarding feminism or claim they do not understand "real" women or have "male privilege"
  • refuse to address transmisogyny and how it relates to racism
  • are neutral on the branches of feminism that are against trans identities
  • refuse to acknowledge how transmasculine people are also affected by misogyny
  • refuse to acknowledge how transmen can not be affected by transmisogyny
• are transphobic in any way:
  • refuse to acknowledge the historical erasure of BIPOC in transgender movements
  • against any type of microlabeling
  • against non-binary people in any sense
  • claim non-binary people can not be lesbians/gay (against he/him lesbians, etc)