this is what I consider to be the most "basic" criterias. you can skim this if you'd like, but if you have seen a few byfs you don't have to read it!

• racist, anti-black:
  • against BLM ("ALM" or "Blue Lives Matter")
  • alt-right, (neo)nazi, etc
  • antisemitic or islamophobic
  • xenophobic, sinophobic etc
  • asian fetishizer
• bad faith identities:
  • (NO)MAP, PEAR, Lolicon/Shotacon, pedophile
  • fujoshi, fundanshi (I do not care that they were created as "empowering" identities, as words' meanings change over time)
  • bi/pan/straight "lesbians"
• proshipper:
  • proship, compship, anti-anti
  • "fiction does not affect reality"
  • justify incest, abuse, etc in any form
  • justify pedophilia to any extent
  • write about any of these topics in a romanticizing light to "cope"