• do not use passive aggression or vague me. this will lead me to either respond defensively (by blocking or lashing out) or enter a horrible panic attack. if you have a problem you would like to address, please feel free to come to me or have someone do so on your behalf
  • in turn, i do not use passive aggression or vague. i do often subtweet and sometimes miscommunicate, so if you feel uncomfortable with the way something has gone, please let me know and i'll immediately correct myself. i guarantee your discomfort was unintentional. passive aggression (as you can probably tell) has caused me some major psychological problems in life and i would love the chance to fix any issue i cause
• i always appreciate any reassurance that you like and approve of me , even if nothing has happened recently t...

i use tweetdeck to filter tags in [bracket format] and my catch-all tag is [jdl] for "jack don't look". other kinds of content tagging (slashes or spaces; "lrt: content warning"; paraphrasing the exact phrase inside the brackets) are useless to me. please ask or warn before requesting clarification for things on my blacklist to avoid triggering me

starred are the most important ones, but please tag all of them

• [underweight] - photos or drawings of extremely underweight, weak, pale, unhealthy people. this is very contextual and not always a problem, but when in doubt, please tag it. it's related to a period in which i was very sick and on the brink of death, if that's helpful to understanding it
• ☆ [maggots] - hopefully self explanatory. please tag mentions as well as images, including hyperbole or name-calling. the word alone can be enough to set me off

do not follow if:

• you use the word 'psycho' and aren't psychotic or psychopathic
• you're going to like every tweet you see (sorry this is a trigger)
• you're going to softblock (just ask and i'll unfollow)
• you know you won't remember to tag my triggers, particularly the weird/uncommon ones (again sorry)
• you ship incest, pedophilia, or abuse (incl. charasriel, sheith, billford)
• you think fictional child porn isn't a big deal or think you're exempt from culpability for interacting with fictional child porn because you're a victim
• you hang with thalassarche molly, grilledmackerei brook(e), or mea. i would also prefer not to be included in threads with pocky, lauren, or sai
• you're kin with danny phantom or stanley ...