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(not saying I don't do some of these myself)

  • Make me feel like my feelings/worries/concerns are stupid or irrational, even if they are.
  • Complain a lot.
  • Talk about their significant others all the time.
  • Feel sorry for themselves.
  • Don't do the things they say they will.
  • Flake out on plans/aren't dependable.
  • Be overly dramatic and make a big deal out of nothing.
  • Ask me for relationship advice, as if I'm experienced or something.
  • Tell me not to cry.
  • Get offended easily.
  • Relate my problems to their own, instead of just listening.
  • Beat around the bush.
  • Lecture me. I have parents k thanks.
  • Assume they know me a lot better than they do.
  • Judge me.
  • Attempt to apply stereotypes to me.
  • Insist on putting labels on things.
  • Make me feel stupid or call me stupid.
  • Can't agree to disagree, and insist on arguing.
  • Are close minded in general.
  • Are close minded when it comes to sexuality.
  • Repeat themselves a lot.
  • Drop everything for a significant other.
  • Assume that being in a relationship means losing all your freedom.
  • Treat me like I'm naive.
jun 8 2008 ∞
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