I sadly have to learn things the hard way and I know everyone does every once in awhile, but I feel like it happens to me more than normal. Here are the BIG lessons I've learned today:

• even if you are careful, be super paranoid careful on what you post on Facebook.
• don't friend anyone you work with, on FB, unless you become real friends outside of your work place.
• you will know who your real friends are, when you are stricken with hard times.