I haven't felt so sad in so long... To this fall apart made me cry today. How do you abandon your own child? I can definitely understand if the child isn't your blood, but your own blood? And on top of that we didn't even do anything to make you hate us. As a father, you always said "you should know what's right and what's wrong". Well now it's your turn, open your fucking eyes and realize that giving up on your child just means that you can't handle it anymore and everyone was right. Hey, maybe you do need a break but don't say that you're going to LEAVE. Come back and face your problems. Everyone has them and just because for once you're the one with the problem now, you're gonna go and runaway. You had the option of choosing your family over your girlfriend. You say you're not choosing her but your actions speak otherwise. You move out when she moves out but not move in with her? Okay, cool. It's still the same thing. You basically chose her. What did we ever do to you? You're overreacting and making the problem bigger than what it really is. We don't want to end up as "bad bloods". I don't want to be that kind of daughter who looks down on her father, and has so much hatred towards him because he chose somebody else over his family. And right now your actions are speaking louder than your words, which I am honestly surprised about. I know my grandma and everybody else hasn't been showing much appreciation towards what you've been doing, with helping grandpa and all, but why should you even need to ask for a thank you? THAT'S FAMILY. We help each other out without expecting anything back. If you feel unappreciated you should have came to us and talked about it. Don't take it out on us just because there's a fight now and feel the need to bring everything up, you're creating "sides" and this family war has been going on far too long. Maybe you're the one who should have stayed in college. Maybe my mother was right to leave you in the first place. Sometimes I feel sorry for you because my mother was the best you ever had. Because unlike your girlfriend, she's smart, healthy, prioritizes her life, and would definitely not make the mistakes you do.