I think people pay too much attention to what they dont have then what they do have. The fact that we, as people, sometimes care too much is a great thing, but it also frightens me just a tad bit. Its not that caring too much is a bad thing. But it could be the reason why people have been hurting so much. Once we have a good thing in our life, we tend to think that this will never leave because during the spur of the moment, its basically considered apart of your life, apart of you. Reality is, that special thing in your life could leave anytime they want, with or without any notice. I also believe that we are the founders of our own destiny and happiness. We do certain things because we choose to. We do it because it makes us happy to see someone else happy, but little do we all know, that we can just stop it entirely. Its interesting how people always say that they are in love when really, they have not been through enough pain to see the good in everything. "Love shouldnt cause pain", but after you experience what being in love feels like, you will understand that in order to receive true love, you have to go though pain to realize how much it is really worth.