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What a beautiful face I have found in this place that is circling all round the sun. What a beautiful dream that could flash on the screen in a blink of an eye and be gone from me. Let me hold it close and keep it here with me. And one day we will die and our ashes will fly from the aeroplane over the sea. But for now we are young, let us lay in the sun and LIST every beautiful thing we see.

bookmarks:
listography GIVE MEMORIES
Ryan movies (In theaters, TV series, or docs)
books (reading, read, bookclub)
books (Never Ending Summer Reading List)
books (Some Queer Authors...)
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  • 2024: Drea massage movie, volunteering at the Midnight Mission, Burbank Art Festival, double teen movies and Italian w. J&H
  • 2023: Adam brunch, brunch / massages with Andrea, hawks and owls with Hollis, boardgames w/ Kathleen and Adam, Bay Area visit w/Nina, Chris, Justin, Leanne, etc. Vegas trip to see U2 at the Sphere
  • 2022: brunch w/Adam, Pura Vita vegan Italian dinner, Astra Lumina exhibit w/ Andrea, nose piercing w/ H, Comedy show (w/liane)
  • 2021: Island trip to Moorea (French Polynesia) + Matt M. visits -- “50” outdoor BIRTHDAY party w/friends at Wolfies (Matt, Zeb, Adam, Amelia, Andrea, Justin, Leanne, Laura, Olivia, Mark, Erik, Russ, Tish, Vince, Georgia, Nick, Kristina, Karilyn, James, Mike, Randy, Shauna, Rich, Chris, Eric, Claire, Cormac, Greg, Leah, Chris, Sharon, Ezra, Buki, Bart, Carlie, Tchaiko, Burton, Claire, Nick, Moe M, Jason R, Lisa S., Aaron), followed drunk driver home
  • 2020 - Covid bday with chinese feast and Rupaul w James Hollis, James got me a bike basket for Rumi (Rumi was at vet w/ allergic reaction)
  • 2019 - Trevor Noah live, dance soul night, korean dinner, offbeat bar burlesque with cokes
  • 2018 - fancy movie date w/andrea, R&R brunch, Gracias Madre dinner + Jesus Mary Chain show
  • 2017 - Tulum, molly
  • 2016 - Andrea Korean Spa, Hollis + James Stuart House Party
  • 2015 - James brought me power plant lunch. Shojin dinner (andrea, james, richard, ryan, raf, john, adrian). Bowling (andrea, james, richard, ryan, raf, john, adrian, james t, tish, mike i, randi, jason r). James painted me a John/Yoko portrait. Bday: went to vietnamese with James, then El Dorado Park for Toki, and then to visit my parent's graves. Then Hollis came over for pizza night and homework.
  • 2014 - WP24 romantic dinner with Adam, korean dinner and mike birbiglia comedy night with Richard, Ryan, Andrea and Julie. Christmas Tree Lane walking tour with Escalera Family & mission folks.
  • 2013 - birthday getaway in Ojai with Adam, Richard, Andrea and Toki (a hippie watched him while we went to dinner)
  • 2012 - Dinner + Movie (Life of Pi) w. Andrea, Laura, Richard, Ryan, Adam, Erik. Soho House brunch w. Samer, Brad, John. Detroit birthday dinner with Adam's family (Jack, Sue, Matt, Vanessa, their daughters, Grandpa Wright), Jack + Sue dinner with ambulance.
  • 2011 - lunch at Fish Company with dad, a week in Kauai with Adam, homemade brunch with friends at the house (andrea, laura, glen, mike, jesse, dare, adrian, jovin, greg, leah, richard, lisa, temske, sara), dinner & dance recital w/russ & john
    • brunch menu: broccoli/eggplant/asparagus quiche, bread, muffins, fruit salad, veg sausage, kale & apple baked eggs, potato fritatta, sweet potato home fries, spring salad, cake,
  • 2010 - lunch with mom, dad, adam at home town buffet. then: dad hospital, then mom hospital, then me hospital, then adopting dog that was euthanized. really bad week.
  • 2009 - went to see Wicked w/richard and adam. went to dinner with friends. went to see Streetcar Named Desire w/adam at BAM.
  • 2008 - went to La Esquina for dinner and to see the play "speed the plow" w/jeremy piven. also went to visit miles davis' grave with matt & salma. had a breakfast party with some friends and played games on actual birthday. matt and i won pictionary. also watched "the black balloon" movie bootleg.
  • 2007 - flew on an airplane back from CA (virgin america), saw marc b at our house when we returned. next day, celebrated with a nice dinner with matt.salma.liane.joe @ roebling tea house
  • 2006 - Ave Q Musical then cake and drinks at home (21 E 2nd) with friends: matt, salma, paula, vince, steve, jason, john c & fancy korean and drinks at the apartment bar in grand central with vince and adam
  • 2005 - birthday dinner at A Cote & drinks with friends at Ben & Nicks
  • 2004 - silversun pickups and film school perform at mile high club for my birthday, party afterwards, italian dinner with close friends beforehand at Zza's
  • 2003 - trip to gualala cabin with adam in mendocino county on the ocean
  • 2002 - candlelit dinner with close friends at 662 65th
  • 2001 - starry plough party with friends' bands playing: dealership, secadora, bart davenport, justin (technicolor) play. group sing a long to girls on film.
  • 2000 - 3103 college dinner party + games: randy, lara, darren, erin, justin, aaron, adam c, sasha p, liane, justin, mark, laura
  • 1999 - Zza's Trattoria dinner party with friends: adam c, chrissa, ian c, bjorn, maya, sasha, aaron, jane, laura, lara, randy cris, darren, erin, liane, justin, brosch, john c, rob, garo,
  • 1998 - trattoria dinner with friends on college ave: darren, erin, maria, john, adam, brosch, justin, rob, sonya
  • 1997 - dinner with adam right when we started dating
  • 1996 - Dance party at the Macarthur House with Peechees DJ, someone falls through my bedroom ceiling
  • 1995 - Cowboy Theme Party at the Macarthur House with joe and friends, musical chairs (maria, dan, sonya, joe, nadja, zan, jeffrey, tracy, jeff, keith, etc, bunch of whole foods friends)
  • 1984 - best friends anna and kristy come over and we go to knott's berry farm courtesy of mom and dad
jan 26 2007 ∞
dec 8 2024 +