- in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 00s
- in the same house, watching the same kids and families grow older around me
- in the suburbs, then later finding life in a big city
- without cell phones, social media, or the constant surveillance of recording culture
- with great music, decade by decade, heard in intimate venues before the mainstream flooded it all via social media
- with parties and club scenes full of people who felt authentic––not mirroring identities copied from social media
- without streaming pulling everyone away from books and art
- with work that required time and effort, instead of everything at my fingertips, which might have left me more entitled and depressed
- forming my own identity within my community, instead of being shaped by strangers
- with an immigrant mom who shaped my perspective
- with a father who survived two wars and showed me the emotional toll
- with love and friendship
- with the opportunity to educate my brain and search for spiritual understanding
- without the 24/7 news cycle
oct 2 2025 ∞
oct 6 2025 +