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What a beautiful face I have found in this place that is circling all round the sun. What a beautiful dream that could flash on the screen in a blink of an eye and be gone from me. Let me hold it close and keep it here with me. And one day we will die and our ashes will fly from the aeroplane over the sea. But for now we are young, let us lay in the sun and LIST every beautiful thing we see.

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listography GIVE MEMORIES
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books (reading, read, bookclub)
books (Never Ending Summer Reading List)
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  • 12.31 new years eve get together at our place
  • 12.24 to 12.31 LA family/friends visit
    • revolutionary road movie and dinner with shannon, laura and andrea
    • korean christmas
    • palm springs and joshua tree
    • visit with" greg, leah, brosch, lisa, andrea, laura and shannon
    • take mom and dad to medieval times
    • visited with the Castle's and Vanessa
    • Bejamin Button movie
  • 12.23 taking the 6th grade gals to see the climate change exhibit at Natural History Museum
  • 12.21 brunch with matt, salma, richard, james and michelle
  • 12.20 celebrated karl sagan and watch Contact with happy cigarettes
  • 12.19 dinner date with adam to see "the wrestler"
  • 12.18 girl dinner at enid's
  • 12.12 andy, lisa, and vince over for "make your own" pizza party
  • 12.7 birthday breakfast gathering
  • 12.6 adam's birthday surprise for me?
  • 11.30 matt & salma dinner and boardgames
  • 11.29 central park, nat hist museum
  • 11.27 volunteer at the bowery mission , Milk film in east village
  • 11.26 time w. arianna
  • 11.23 movie date (slumdog millionaire) w.richard and james
  • 11.21 girl dinner get together, cynthia and liane
  • 11.20 dinner and movie (role models) date w/richard, james and adam
  • 11.13 to 11.17 bay area friends visit
    • 11.15 music project w/justin
    • 11.15 brunch at adrienne's and dan's w/the gang
    • 11.14 breakfast w/lisa & scott
    • 11.13 lunch w/marc, drinks with sonya
  • 11.11 help with steve's secret campaign to change the world
  • 11.8 matt's party for john
  • 11.6 star's visit
  • 11.4 OBAMA IS ELECTED!!!!
  • 11.3 election charades dinner party
  • 11.1 reiki circle try out with salma. dinner w. matt & salma at la superior
  • 10.29 richard's birthday dinner at Supper and Haunted House NYC night!
  • 10.26 movie w/friends: synedoche, new york
  • 10.25 sleepwalk with mike show with cynthia and steve
  • 10.24 movie w/friends: let the right one in
  • 10.24 visit david's school
  • 10.20 lykke li at music hall of williamsburg w/friends
  • 10.12 cruise around harlem with matt and salma
  • 10.11 movie (happy go lucky w/richard, steve, jen, and james) and walk around the city date with adam
  • 10.9 brunch with laura and maxine
  • 10.8 last night of sewing class (until we reconvene in the future)
  • 10.7 dinner, drinks, and madonna in concert (with the gals: laura and salma)
  • 10.6 vince's return from tour comedy show (meet with jim and david c.)
  • 10.3 old les teens staff night out
  • 10.1 echo and the bunnymen performing ocean rain at radio city music hall (our 11 year anniversary!!)
  • 9.27 movie: trouble the water and west village walk with richard and james
  • 9.26 obama debates mccain: dinner w/richard, james, liane, joe
  • 9.25 joe's birthday party
  • 9.22 my bloody valentine show at roseland with richard, james, matt and salma
  • 9.21 Creative Time Armory Exhibit Steve's work showing
  • 9.20 salma get together after her trip
  • 9.20 bike ride w/richard and james thru dumbo and brooklyn heights, then movie: the pool
  • 9.19 andrea visits. dinner at Stanton Social with andrea, michelle and devon. Noah and The Whale show at Mercury Lounge
  • 9.18 andrea visits
  • 9.17 treasure academy dinner with parents
  • 9.16 dinner with liane
  • 9.13 dinner and movie date (burn after reading) with adam
  • 9.12 dinner and rummikub with matt
  • 9.8 salma meet up at Mood Fabrics
  • 9.7 5 borough bike ride
  • 9.6 cynthia's bowling birthday get together
  • 9.5 fela musical for cynthia's birthday
  • 9.3 - 10.8 sewing classes w/liane, salma, cynthia, richard
  • 8.30 joe's band at joe's pub
  • 8.29 dinner & movie w/adam
  • 8.28 started new job with Childrens Aid Society and it rulez
  • 8.16 to 8.25 roadtrip thru canada to michigan (see adam's dad and brother, meet up with randy, lara, justin, leanne, etc at lake house, niagara falls, finger lakes, and the pineries, etc)
  • 8.15 neil diamond show madison square gardens
  • 8.14 dinner with matt's family
  • 8.13 richard hosts a dinner w. jane, paul, liane and joe and we swat mosquitoes
  • 8.11 movie night with the girls: american teen
  • 8.10 vince's 2 yr anniversary comedy show
  • 8.9 breakfast & car free bike ride w.richard, matt, salma, adam
  • 8.8 88 drummers, dinner with vince, adam and brad at la superior
  • 8.6 bike ride with richard
  • 8.4 bike ride and dinner with adam
  • 8.2 walks with dinosaurs show
  • 8.1 david and deborah's book reading
  • 7.30 business dinner with joe
  • 7.27 mgmt show in mccarren park pool
  • 7.26 jason's bbq, man on wire movie at sunshine
  • 7.25 joe and liane's flying spoons show
  • 7.22 matt & salma dinner
  • 7.21 girl dinner
  • 7.19 blokus and dinner with matt & salma + dark knight film
  • 7.18 ripley leaves us and heads into the univeres
  • 7.11 vince on comedy central viewing dinner party: matt, salma, richard, vince, adam, jay, chris, brad, jesse,
  • 7.8 mccarren park outdoor movie night (wet hot amer summer) with richard, paula, salma, matt, etc
  • 7.5 hunter s thompson documentary
  • 7.4 matt & salma's rooftop for fireworks/dinner with crawfish
  • 7.3 WallE movie with adam, richard, and james. joe comes by to hang out.
  • 6.29 big brunch with friends, gay pride with richard, et al
  • 6.28 laura, mark and lila visit
  • 6.26 dinner with star and jon
  • 6.24 ulrich schnauss at river to river festival
  • 6.21 matt and salma night roof dinner with richard and james
  • 6.20 wildbirds & peacedrums show with liane, adam, cynthia, et al
  • 6.19 girl dinner at cynthia's and artshow in the lES
  • 6.17 richard arrives from africa (recovering from malaria)
  • 6.15 dinner with matt and joe's show at glasslands
  • 6.14 Renegade Craft Fair Mccarren Park, LES Teens Skateboard Contest. rob/kristen/joe/liane dinner.
  • 6.13 rob/kristen visit
  • 6.8 Baby Love play
  • 6.6 MIA in mccarren park
  • 6.4 to 6.6 chris and eric visit
  • 6.3 paula and matthew come over :-)
  • 6.2 dinner with sonya, eric, jenn
  • 6.1 dinner w. adrienne/dan, stop at mike's new house
  • 5.31 rob and kristen's wedding at the cabins
  • 5.30 lunch w. scott / dinner at golden lotus with justin, leanne, chris, lisa, heather, dave, etc
  • 5.29 Trip to CA
  • 5.27 girls thai dinner
  • 5.25 bronx zoo with joe/liane to see gorillas. dinner matt/salma.
  • 5.23 Top Girls comedy play with adam
  • 5.20 dinner with liane and cynthia
  • 5.17 kite flying and park day in mccarren park
  • 5.13 to 5.17 adam and mary visit (dinner party)
  • 5.10 Passing Strange musical with my kids and adam
  • 5.9 to 5.11 marc/kenneth/rob/chris come to visit. HSH show.
  • 5.7 cynthia dinner and massage night
  • 5.6 liane/joe dinner
  • 5.2 to 5.4 greg and leah come to visit/film school show
  • 4.15 richard and i in INDIA!!!
  • 4.13 obama film for moveon.org
  • 4.11 matt & salma dinner night
  • 4.7 visiting lizzi and the new baby
  • 4.3 girl dinner & massages
  • 3.30 brooklyn's new flea market
  • 3.27 liane comes over for some ravioli
  • 3.25 matt and i make pizza dinner
  • 3.21 matt and salma's
  • 3.20 smile faucet party
  • 3.19 dinner w. joe, cynthia, richard, matt, salma, jason
  • 3.18 richard visits
  • 3.15 monkey town show/dinner
  • 3.9 whitney biennial w.matt & salma & john
  • 2.28 cynthia and salma over for girl dinner
  • 2.24 max/josh visit
  • 2.20 we finally move into our new home in Brooklyn
  • 2.17 visit kevin/sue, adrienne/dan
  • 2.16 chris/eric breakfast, visit randy/lara, sasha party & drinks at Kona
  • 2.15 movies w. leanne and justin, breakfast w.lisa
  • 2.14 Bay Area Trip to see the babies (lara/adrienne) hang w. adrienne & dan, visit scott & sarah
  • 2.12 U2 3D w. laura, mike, ...
  • 2.10 hang w.andrea & shannon, film school video shoot
  • 2.9 dinner at laura & flo's w. glen
  • 2.9 LA Trip to see family & friends
  • 2.4 hang with laura c & lila
  • 1.27 adam's birthday surprise: brunch w. friends & Happy Days play, lara & randy's baby born
  • 1.26 adam's birthday surprise: salad spinner & Mike Leigh play
  • 1.25 dinner with liane and joe
  • 1.25 MLK Celebration at work w. performances
  • 1.24 john's artshow in chelsea w. vince, lebasi, paula, jason, ...
  • 1.10 matt & salma wedding Yelapa, Mexico & a trip to Mexico City
  • 1.1 made breakfast, listened to bob dylan, played scrabble, saw Diving Bell & The Butterfly w.adam

A Week in 2008:

  • hung out with Ming in the subway station. he does origami cut outs of people's faces. really sweet guy with a good soul.
  • met a guy on the L train who gives away free dvds of political documentaries. nice guy. works hard.
  • discovered brooklyn heights and the promenade by bike
  • incredible east coast warm lightening and thunder storm. adam comes home wet but happy.
  • adam and i placed a wager on whether or not there are multi-universes. now to figure it out?
  • road with ira glass on the subway. delightful.
  • am i the only one who likes scarlett johansson's new album
  • jesus lovers on the train trying to convert the sad
  • on the subway: acrobats and then a man proposes to a woman
  • adam knocks on bathroom door and hides. i think i'm going crazy. he knocks again and hides. i see him. we laugh.
  • road with jemaine on the subway from flight of the conchords
  • trying to catch the bus parked below, i fell down the subway stairs and right into a puerto rican man's butt (my right hand grabbing his pocket while my face pressed into his left butt cheek). he broke my fall basically. i laughed really hard and he smiled and asked me if i was okay.
  • it's magical that the trees know when it's spring and when to come out of hibernation!
  • jogged through williamsburg with biko's poop sample in my pocket for the vet. so many cute restaurants and bars to visit. i love mccarren park!
  • stood near two gunshots. kids and gangs. and they want to cut afterschool programs.
  • helped a woman on the street who had fallen and looked to be in a state of shock near houston
  • ate (by accident) the spiciest thing i have ever eaten: a jalapeno in a subway sandwich...some crazy renegade jalapeno that was ridiculously hot
  • watched adam step in a cat poo that biko had left in the livingroom
  • adam saved a little bird drenched from the rain back in july. he kept it warm in a shoe box and it flew home later.

Another Week in 2008:

  • there are some days in new york that make it worth every second of winter. days when you can roam the streets and zip in and out of neighborhoods on the subway on a warm day, and the whole energy of the city feels like magic. today was one of those days. thank you new york!
  • woke up to liane, joe and sophie bringing over bagels and cream cheese
  • with liane, joe, sophie, rob, kristen, matt, and salma, we headed across the street to mccarren park pool for the renegade crafts fair where it was hot and we ate ice cream
  • went to the children's park where we huddled in our own corner like a gang and played in the kid's water park with sophie. we performed stunts and dares.
  • headed on the B48 bus to the lower east side and attended a skateboarding fundraiser for my school program. the entire rooftop of a high school overlooking the city filled with ramps and skaters of every age, color, and background set against the graffitied walls. my kids were selling drinks and raffle tickets. it was great.
  • then headed to lombardi's pizza in nolita for delicious pizza.
  • returned home, and sat on the patio balcony and watched the most amazing lightening and thunder storm. then it poured the heaviest rain through the warm air. adam and i used this time to mop our balcony together with bare feet. it was fun. then we sat and held hands and watched the rest of the storm.
  • came inside, showered and re-created the listography home page to look less businessy.
  • made dinner together and watched an episode of this american life.
  • went to bed. talked about and listened to music and then had sex.
  • such a great day. so grateful.

Highlights:

  • obama is elected
  • discovered wurdle on adam's iphone
  • SNL gets funny
  • lots of bike rides, esp the summer city street bike ride up manhattan
  • beijing opening ceremony pretty amazing
  • met with my next door neighbors that grew up with and hadn't talk to in a long time
  • sewing classes with the gals and girl dinner nights out
  • writing the lyrics for justin's album
  • helping with the fake NY Times distribution for steve's project
  • our 11 year anniversary
  • INDIA w/ richard
  • "walks with dinosaurs" show with vince and adam
  • michigan and back road trip
  • seeing neil diamond
  • mosquito killing nights
  • rummikub and blokus game discovery
  • adrienne, lara, maysie, sue, lizzi all have their babes
  • rooftop crawfish cook out on matt/salma's roof
  • yelapa trip for matt/salma wedding and mexico city trip
  • moved into our new apartment in brooklyn
  • started best job to date with my 6th grade girl crew
  • richard becomes roomie
  • vince comedy central debut
  • i fell in love with tea (again)
  • Fela and Passing Strange musical
  • three california trips
  • rob/kristens wedding at the cabins up north
  • friend visits
    • laura, lila, mark
    • marc b, kenneth and crew
    • greg and leah
    • chris and eric
    • richard
    • andrea
    • star, jon, and mila
    • adam and mary
    • andy
    • rob and kristen
  • not a highlight, but we lost our cat ripley
  • tried a reiki circle
  • the lake house gathering in michigan and riding the wave runners (never laughed so hard)

Thanksgiving:

  • met adam for mexican with his giant kmart bags filled with goods for the homeless
  • took arianna on a forever 21 shopping spree
  • volunteered at the Bowery Mission to serve thanksgiving day dinner. sat at a table of men and spoke about odds and ends.
  • went to see the Milk film in the east village
  • watched pink floyd concert
  • ate a whole pomegranate with adam
  • cruised new york on biggest shopping day while listening to a favorite songs mix on my ipod
  • listened to pink floyd's "dark side of the moon" in entirety and synced to planet earth's Pole to Pole dvd
  • got veggie biscuits and gravy at enids
  • went to the natural history museum to look at gems and minerals
  • walked through central park at sunset
  • matt and salma come to dinner and salma has a surprise!
dec 26 2007 ∞
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