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What a beautiful face I have found in this place that is circling all round the sun. What a beautiful dream that could flash on the screen in a blink of an eye and be gone from me. Let me hold it close and keep it here with me. And one day we will die and our ashes will fly from the aeroplane over the sea. But for now we are young, let us lay in the sun and LIST every beautiful thing we see.

bookmarks:
listography GIVE MEMORIES
Ryan movies (In theaters, TV series, or docs)
books (reading, read, bookclub)
books (Never Ending Summer Reading List)
books (Some Queer Authors...)
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(wednesdays and thursdays with mom and dad)

  • 1.1.11 griffith park hike w/adam and toki, new years with lee family --korean dumpling soup
  • 12.31 blue valentine movie and thai dinner with laura and andrea
  • 12.29 somewhere movie with laura, shannon and andrea
  • 12.28 runyon canyon hike with toki, true grit with andrea
  • 12.27 D-Day we bring home our adopted dog: Sherman Stokes "Toki"
  • 12.26 dog class
  • 12.25 christmas dinner with the whole Lee family
  • 12.24 christmas eve dinner w/mom, dad, adam
  • 12.23 drive to hemet to visit my uncle larry (WWII vet)
  • 12.22 GRE, dog shelter date w/ Yukon & Patsy
  • 12.18 nathan & hane housewarming
  • 12.17 dinner with friends (ritesh...)
  • 12.14 emergency room
  • 12.12 rose bowl flea
  • 12.11 family emergency room visits
  • 12.10 nat's art show
  • 12.8 nat visit for few days
  • 12.7 quiet birthday with mom, adam, dad
  • 12.6 visit ucla
  • 12.5 pasadena flea w/andrea
  • 12.3 black swan movie date w/adam
  • 11.28 melrose flea
  • 11.27 shelter and runyon canyon
  • 11.25 make thanksgiving dinner for my whole korean family
  • 11.21 jason smith comedy event
  • 11.19 dinner with tim
  • 11.18 adam dinner w/brosch and temske
  • 11.16 visit ucla
  • 11.15 cherrytree event w/andrea, robyn dj'ed
  • 11.12 johnie & evelyn visit
  • 11.9 cinefamily event w.andrea: polanski films w/live score
  • 11.7 hollywood farmers market, 127 hours movie w/andrea
  • 11.6 bought our car: honda fit
  • 11.4 Gary Numan at El Rey Theater: pleasure principle tour
  • 11.1 LOS ANGELES
  • 10.29 to 10.31 DC to see Laura and Mark, attend Rally to Restore Sanity, halloween with Laura's kids
  • 10.28 slumber party with matt, salma and maggie
  • 10.23 Going Away dinner with Friends
  • 10.22 josh and maxine party
  • 10.17 brunch @ blossom and walk through central park with paula
  • 10.15 Laser Floyd at Nokia Theater w/friends and dinner at keshkaval
  • 10.14 girl dinner going away party: cynthia, liane, salma, maxine
  • 10.9 to 10.12 AUSTIN Music Festival with Matt/VH1, Monday & Tuesday with Marc
  • 10.8 justin and leanne visit
  • 10.7 lunch and shop walk with cynthia
  • 10.6 visit the girls i worked with in program, brunch with leanne, visit jim's after school program, dinner with maxine
  • 10.5 brunch with cary lane, Roger Waters The Wall, Madison Square Gardens
  • 10.4 visit the girls i worked with in program, joe over for dinner
  • 10.3 brunch w/matt & salma. adam made incredible breakfast: french toast, egg/spinach, potatoes, cantaloupe, veggie sausage/bacon
  • 10.2 13 year anniversary let me in movie/dinner date w/adam
  • 10.1 social network movie w/adam, dinner w/jason, Film School friends in town: Mercury Lounge
  • 9.30 Belle and Sebastian williamsburg waterfront park & joe's birthday
  • 9.26 Girl Date: Atlantic Ave St Fair and drawing class with liane, cynthia, salma and sima
  • 9.25 brunch with brian, automotive high football game in mccarren park w/josh, brian. matt and joe. then made lunch w/matt & joe, then sewed all night.
  • 9.24 new york walk date, dinner and movie (waiting for superman) with adam
  • 9.21 haircuts and birthday dinner with cynthia
  • 9.19 matt/salma brunch, wrestling event with vince, jodi and matt mc, Pavement concert in williamsburg park
  • 9.18 brunch with jason and kamila, hang w/brian, date w/adam (dinner/scott pilgrim movie)
  • 9.16 walk around new york, cynthia cuts adam's hair, belated bday dinner w/ cynthia
  • 9.13 to 9.14 MONTAUK with liane and joe
  • 9.10 to 9.12 RHODE ISLAND trip w/richard and james. richard and james move from NY to return to antarctica.
  • 9.5 Unicycle Festival on Governor's Island
  • 9.4 check out Eataly
  • 9.2 dinner and movie w/richard
  • 9.1 work dinner party for richard
  • 8.31 dinner and movie w/richard (art of the steal)
  • 8.29 movies (last exorcism) w/richard and james, walked around the village
  • 8.28 city walk with adam into bushwick
  • 8.27 dinner and walk over the brooklyn bridge for james's birthday...we sang serenaded him from the birdge
  • 8.26 saw "the expendables" with all the guys: vince, jesse, jay, adam, matt mc, jay and his wife. post drinks.
  • 8.10 to 8.24 UTAH national parks road trip & VEGAS
  • 8.8 maggie's first birthday in the park with friends
  • 8.7 dinner w/richard and his sister
  • 8.6 liane/joe dinner, cynthia's show
  • 8.5 visit salma/matt, dinner w/richard/james
  • 8.3 return to New York
  • 8.1 soup plantation w/glen & mike
  • 7.30 OC Fair with Glen. See Journey Unauthorized cover band.
  • 7.29 dinner with greg, nathan and hane in LA
  • 7.27 lunch with high school friends vanessa and sheila
  • 7.24 Disneyland with Laura & Mike
  • 7.21 dinner and keane show at greek theater: andrea, laura, eric
  • 7.18 glen's picnic: flo, joe, mike, glen, vanessa, shiela, other old high school pals
  • 7.17 back to OC to stay with MOM
  • 7.10 BAY AREA VISIT
    • dinner with julie & scott
    • visited sarah's shop
    • le cheval dinner w/adrienne, dan, chris, eric, heather, kevin, bea & ian
    • lunch with audra
    • dinner with justin, leanne & larry
    • visit cary lane's shop
    • wine with chris and eric
    • dinner party with rob, kristen, garo, tiffany, lara, randy, sumei, matt, gary, jessica and babies
    • massage at NHI
    • toy story movie with scott and julie
    • lunch with heather
    • hang out with dax pierson
    • blue plate dinner with aaron, dave and lisa
    • knock out show to see sam and bart
    • sonya breakfast
    • lunch with adrienne
    • inception movie date with adam
    • visit with scott
    • visit justin and leanne's new house
  • 7.7 BIG SUR CABIN
  • 7.6 dinner with jennifer h
  • 7.5 brunch & twilight: eclipse w/shannon, laura, andrea
  • 7.4 dinner & fireworks with family
  • 7.3 hollywood cemetery screening of easy rider w/laura, andrea, and mike
  • 7.2 bought mom & dad tv
  • 6.28 CALIFORNIA time with mom & dad
  • 6.27 gay pride festivities
  • 6.26 cyrus movie and india w/brian
  • 6.25 last day of program before summer and grad school. will miss Treasure Academy: my co-workers and kids
  • 6.24 showgirls dinner night w/richard & james
  • 6.23 maxine dinner date
  • 6.22 twin peaks finale night with richard/james
  • 6.21 big girl dinner potluck
  • 6.19 jason k brunch
  • 6.17 first date-jessica s
  • 6.15 james and richard twin peaks night
  • 6.12 hare krishna festival in washington square park, walked all over east village, dinner on matt & salma's roof
  • 6.6 renegade fair with salma and baby maggie
  • 6.5 hair model for cynthia, renegade craft fair, Charlie Kaufman & Alan Alda consciousness lecture
  • 6.4 work party, star gazing battery park, movie/dinner date w/adam (please give)
  • 6.2 rites of passage event for girls in our program, dinner w. james, richard, kai
  • 5.27 - 6.1 MEMORIAL WEEKEND trip w/ matt & salma, joe & liane to Falling Water & the Laurel Highlands
  • 5.27 take the program girls to Dance Africa
  • 5.26 spring fest performances at work, dinner with paul
  • 5.25 return to work/ dinner & drinks with maxine
  • 5.22 cooper hewitt museum triennial w/liane & joe
  • 5.20 lunch with paul
  • 5.19 vince over for band night
  • 5.17 cynthia dinner & drinks, matt comes by with a surprise gift
  • 5.13 brunch w/sara and nick
  • 5.11 iron man w/adam & brian
  • 5.9 mother's day. treat mom to acupressure massage. dinner with dad.
  • 5.8 olive garden hope lunch w/mom & dad. shopping prep with mom. drive along the beach talk with mom. watched contact w/sae, beata, mom, dad. ms. bare came by (6th grade teacher). late night talk w/dad about the war and how he feels about me and adam
  • 5.7 acupuncture and chinese herbal session with mom, lunch with mom at curry house, doctor appt. test results, watched 2010 with dad
  • 5.6 acupuncture and chinese herbal session with mom, lunch at korean grocery
  • 5.5 time w/mom, walk around abbot kinney venice beach/robertson, dinner/movie (runaways) w/andrea & shannon
  • 5.4 jogging (inspirational songs), thai lunch with mom, night walk with dad
  • 5.3 chinese lunch w/mom, walked around the mall, bought her a new robe, dinner together, visited vanessa, night walk w/mom, twilight zones with dad
  • 5.2 spa girl day w/andrea & laura in LBC, dinner with mom
  • 5.1 Dad's 80th Birthday Party (sae, beata, ky, sun hee, francis, clare, aunt: cousins)
  • 4.27 CALIFORNIA time with mom & dad
  • 4.25 time w/maxine shop walk. paula and I meet for dinner with our cousin who is here from korea studying molecular biology = family dinner before returning home
  • 4.24 matt and salma spend the day at home with us
  • 4.23 adam goes to his first math groups meeting at the cuny grad center. richard entertains me with his heart for 6 hours.
  • 4.22 adam has a huge music session w/vince, josh, jay and cary
  • 4.19 my mom is diagnosed with terminal lung cancer
  • 4.16 to 4.19 James, Ruth, Josh, Amelia come visit!! lisa light also in town... (Do: Williamsburg, Highline, Central Park, Soho, Brooklyn Museum, Prospect Park, movie: exit through giftshop, brooklyn flea, )
  • 4.15 jesse/matt's comedy show at comix. drink with lisa and katrina.
  • 4.14 dinner with brian / phone talk with marc
  • 4.13 vince and josh over for band night
  • 4.10 dream house meditation center, cynthia/rex's bbq in the park, roof dinner with salma & matt
  • 4.8 adam date with eliot
  • 4.6 girl date with cynthia
  • 3.25 to 4.6 PARIS
  • 3.24 girl night w/cynthia and liane
  • 3.20 brunch w/ brian, date night with max & josh. movie greenberg.
  • 3.19 madame butterfly date night with paul, richard and james
  • 3.17 date night with cynthia
  • 3.16 career day time with jim
  • 3.14 indian brunch w/salma, matt
  • 3.13 accepted to grad school
  • 3.7 oscar get together
  • 2.24 fairytale fashion show event w/our girls at eyebeam
  • 2.21 brunch and movie w/brian (shutter island)
  • 2.20 girl dinner & drinks out w/salma, liane and nikki
  • 2.19 girls night out: nikki, salma, liane, cynthia, max
  • 2.10 to 2.18 DOMINICAN REPUBLIC
  • 2.7 brunch w/matt & salma for her bday, then great jones spa day treat with salma (courtesy of matt)
  • 2.5 girl night with cynthia, brian's bday
  • 1.31 brooklyn tunnel tour w.group for adam's bday, grammy's w/liane
  • 1.30 movie w/adam: single man
  • 1.28 bart at pete's candystore w/david c
  • 1.27 dinner for adam's birthday @ zenkichi w/max, josh, eliot, matt, jason...
  • 1.25 dinner and twin peaks night w/richard + james
  • 1.23 render artwork for kids (richard, joe, adam), dinner w/matt,salma, dave, deborah
  • 1.21 twin peaks and wii w/richard-james
  • 1.18 spa castle all day with richard for MLK holiday
  • 1.17 dinner & golden globes w/cynthia & liane & rex
  • 1.16 brunch with brian mosely
  • 1.15 take girls i work with to the Big Apple Circus
  • 1.13 visit with Diana Eng to plan for fairytale fashion and our girls
  • 1.11 arianna lunch visit (from college), movie (daybreakers) w/richard and james
  • 1.10 brunch/movie w.paula. liane dinner & chill
  • 1.8 lunch with vince in k-town
  • 1.7 - 1.10 karilyn visits: MOMA documentary film on Rwanda, lunch and shopping
  • 1.3 brunch at cynthia's
  • 1.1 fantastic mr. fox date w/adam
  • 12.31 new years eve dinner and boardgames (cynthia, joe, salma, matt, maxine, josh...)
  • began the year with a korean jimjilbang body scrub in the OC :-)

[wednesday nights: adam's dude nights (matt,josh, brian, vince, eliot). monday nights: dinner/movie (richard and james)]

6-5 new york summer weekend

  • worked on a fun music video gift for richard and laughed at our silly dances
  • went to dinner and a movie with adam (please give --quintessential new york movie)
  • headed down to the world science festival at battery park around 10pm
  • super warm summer night where you feel like you can walk around all evening
  • saw a replica of the new james webb space telescope, watched kids play legos, watched all the telescope fanatics out there with their telescopes giving free tours of the stars, and received a nice lecture on the universe in a tent with a traveling high tech planetarium
  • met the astronaut john grunsfeld and got a photo and an autograph with him for my mom --who always wanted to be an astronaut
  • ended the night with a walk along the water viewing the statue of liberty & ellis island, seeing all the fisherman out there at midnight fishing in the hudson and girls dressed all fancy coming from a graduation party
  • headed to visit cynthia in cosmetology school where she gave me a great head massage and a fun hair style (found a woman's wallet and did some work to try to return it then walked outside and another girl was crying that she lost her wallet)
  • richard, james and kai came over for chatting and to watch richard's music video gift
  • headed to mccarren park renegade craft fair with richard & james & adam (hot outside, the boys got iceees. lots of people out for the craft fair in the park. bought a great dress. wonderful!)
  • salma comes over with maggie to play in the livingroom
  • headed on a date with adam to hear charlie kaufman, giulio tononi and alan alda speak about consciousness --part of the world science festival
  • headed to korea town and had a great korean feast with adam late in the night. lots of korean party-ers out and about.
  • got off the train a little early to walk through mccarren park on our way home since it was so nice and warm outside
  • end of night cuddling fest

9-18

  • great brunch with jason and kamila at manhattan inn (met kamila and discussed jason's mongolian adventure)
  • date with adam to the Fashion Institute of Technology museum exhibition on japanese fashion
  • dinner at our favorite place in the east village: himalayan cafe
  • litte bit of shopping and a dash down to union square for Scott Pilgrim vs. The World where we surprisingly ran into maxine and josh. we all laughed and loved the movie.
  • woke up to adam making chocolate chip muffins
  • headed to matt and salma's rooftop for a big brunch with friends and beautiful 80 degree new york weather
  • stopped at home for a nap before heading to the Chikara underground pro-wrestling event with vince, jodi, max, josh and matt mc
  • then walked along the williamsburg waterfront to meet liane at the pavement concert (where jake and maggie gyllenhaal were chillin). ate tacos in the warm night with pavement playing in one direction and the new york skyline in the other direction.
  • walked home with adam and watched Mad Men, ate some ice cream, and fell asleep with the windows open to cool night air.
  • ..wonderful weekend and friends and city. thank you. we noted the coincidence of seeing wrestling and scott pilgrim within 24 hours. pretty funny.
dec 31 2009 ∞
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