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haihai! welcome to my extended dni! i know its a lot but i do the best i can to make sure the people i interact with are safe for me. ty for understanding!

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FAVORITE LISTOGRAPHY MENTIONS
IMPORTANT NOTICES
MESSAGES
PRIVACY
  • exclusionist
    • anti-xenogender, anti-neopronouns, anti-MOGAI, think pronouns = gender, anything similar
  • you dont think nounpronouns or emojipronouns are valid, or you pick and choose what you think is valid and what isn't
  • transmed/truscum or think dysphoria is needed to be trans
  • TERF, radfem, or believe in political lesbianism
  • get involved in flag discourse
    • this includes harassing people who use outdated flags, calling the vincian/gay flag "toothpaste" (which is homophobic btw!), etc
  • you support identities that fall under "good faith" that are actually harmful to the lgbt community
    • some examples are: lesboys/gaygirls, mspec lesbians or mspec gays
    • obviously, males cannot be lesbian and females cannot be gay. and the concept of mspec lesbians/gays is horribly mspecphobic.
  • you think being against "good faith" identities makes somebody an exclusionist
    • there is a difference between being an exclusionist and not supporting harmful identities. they are not the same. comparing us is putting us on the same level as transmeds and such
  • you are against identities that involve the "fae"
    • ex: fae/faer pronouns and/or genderfae
    • its transphobic to be against these things. many people who are part of cultures that involve the fae have come forward and said they don't mind the fae being used in identities.
  • you believe lesbians are "more oppressed" than gay men and mspec women and use that as an excuse to be homophobic/mspecphobic
  • you believe comphetting is a "lesbian only experience" and/or use it as an excuse to not identify as mspec
    • any non-straight person can experience comphetting, idk who the hell came up with "its lesbian only"
      • and please note: comphet is not and should not be treated as a positive experience. comphetting causes identity issues and mental stress to those who experience it. claiming to be a lesbian and constantly saying "omg.. this guy is so hot.. competting <3" is gross and harmful.
  • you exclude allies, cishet aroace, and cishet polyam people from the lgbt community on the basis of "they arent lgbt enough"
  • you dont support kink being part of pride
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