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haihai! welcome to my extended dni! i know its a lot but i do the best i can to make sure the people i interact with are safe for me. ty for understanding!

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  • lgbtphobic, racist, ableist etc
  • republican, right-winged, trumper, anti-progressive
  • anti-ukraine
  • anti-acab or think the police should be protected
  • shippers (proship and anti both included)
  • bible thumper, think christians are an oppressed minority and need to be protected under the law
  • you excessively use slurs even ones you can reclaim
    • please remember that while you can reclaim a slur, they can still hurt people. only use your reclaimed slurs in private with your buddies, not in public. and stop making slur usernames, that shit's embarrassing
  • misogynists/misandrists or justify such b...__UNLESS__ you are a victim
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 4 2022 +
  • you have negative feelings towards any people of color
  • you think being a poc means you cant be racist
    • ive seen yall say some awful shit and back it up with "but im a poc" like bitch that doesnt excuse anything.
  • you think whitewashing is valid
  • you racebend characters who are already poc
    • i know this is kind of a hot take, but this is shitty. erasing an already established culture just to apply your own feels wrong. unless you're gonna make them mixed lets just stick to racebending white characters.
  • you think name appropriation is a thing
  • you refuse to show support to other races because "x is more important"
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 4 2022 +
  • exclusionist
    • anti-xenogender, anti-neopronouns, anti-MOGAI, think pronouns = gender, anything similar
  • you dont think nounpronouns or emojipronouns are valid, or you pick and choose what you think is valid and what isn't
  • transmed/truscum or think dysphoria is needed to be trans
  • TERF, radfem, or believe in political lesbianism
  • get involved in flag discourse
    • this includes harassing people who use outdated flags, calling the vincian/gay flag "toothpaste" (which is homophobic btw!), etc
  • you support identities that fall under "good faith" that are actually harmful to the lgbt community
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 6 2022 +
  • you are against the existence of kinning, irls, introjection, or dont believe these things to be true
    • there are plenty of sources out there that show these things are very very real! its not hard to do a little research :)
  • you think kinning is or can be a choice
  • you kin for fun or think doing so is valid
    • please genuinely stop doing this. its harmful to the kin community. kinning is not a fun activity to do for your amusement. you can 100% claim to be characters for fun but do not label it as kinning .
  • you think kinning outside of your race is racist or appropriation
    • again, kinning isnt a choice. this also applies to irls!
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 11 2022 +
  • you are under 18
    • you shouldnt even be on the 18+ server lol
  • you are only interacting with me to say something bad about me, my skins, this dni, etc
  • you cant handle bright colors
    • i have sparkledog skins! they use neon colors and are eye-strainy. please hide me in advance if you wish to not see them.
  • you disrespect ingame touch discomfort
    • you dont have to agree with it, but bullying and harassing people for the sake of "proving a point" is immature.
      • i also wanna make it clear i dont believe in ingame touch triggers . discomfort and triggers are different.
  • you frequent spawn or the docks
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 4 2022 +
  • you self diagnose without EXTENSIVE research
    • self diagnosis is valid but not with 2 google searches. you need to do more research than that!
  • you overuse tone tags
    • ex: "omg i love your art! /lh /pos /gen /p /srs"
      • not only can this skew the tone, but it comes off as you talking down to the person/people you're speaking to, which is heavily ableist. please only use one tone tag at a time, only if somebody says they require more then use more.
  • you think autism cannot affect someones gender
  • you infantalize or romanticize autism
  • you make fun of other autistics who dont fit your view of "cutesy"
oct 4 2022 ∞
oct 6 2022 +
  • you believe fiction cant affect reality, OR that fiction is constantly affecting reality
    • its always smart to find a nice middle ground between the two.
  • you think map ships are okay in any way
  • you identify as proship/comship or any similar term
  • you identify as an anti
    • im sorry, but i dont agree with yall like 85% of the time.
  • you dont think its valid for those who are traumatized to use fictional taboo/dark/controversial topics as a way to cope
    • and telling us to "go get therapy" when a lot of us simply dont have the access to it, which is why we turn to fiction to cope lmao
  • you think using fiction to cope = being a...
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