Wineries/Outdoors

• Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery
  • http://www.casarealevents.com/
  • http://www.herecomestheguide.com/northern-california/wedding-venues/casa-real-at-the-ruby-hill-winery/

Hotels

• Four Seasons Hotel (Silicon Valley or SF)
• Ritz Carlton Hotel (SF or Half Moon Bay)
• The Fairmont Hotel (San Jose)
• Palace Hotel (SF)
• The W Hotel (SF or Newark)

Other

• Legion of Honor...? probably not (SF)

http://wedding.theknot.com/local-wedding-vendors/northern-california-weddings/articles/hip-northern-california-wedding-hotels.aspx