warning signs for the year+ mark

• we stop going on dates/slide only to going on outings after you lock down the relationship as official
• I'm the only one making/initiating plans
• no effort to have a relationship with my friend circle
• no effort to be a part of my family
• not making an effort to love you in your love language
• different, irreconcilable life plans
• they apathy about everything outside of the relationship