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  • money
    • having a good job & decent salary but still feeling financially insecure - cost of living pressures
    • seeing how much of my pay is deducted in tax/student debt and wanting to cry
    • constantly dipping into savings
    • homeownership seems very distant/impossible
  • job/work
    • finally feel happy in new job, but realising the concept of a 'dream job' doesn't exist
    • self-doubt and scared about getting locked into a career path in case i change my mind
    • realising i don't want to work in my degree field
    • envy whilst scrolling through linkedin and seeing people getting amazing opportunities/career advancement
    • i need to train as an esl teacher so i can fulfil my ambition to live and work in spain
    • navigating office politics and difficult co-workers
    • feeling drained and exhausted after work, neglecting hobbies and interests due to feeling burnt out
  • romance
    • still not over completely over relationship that ended in september '24 - feeling lonely
    • the thought of going through another 'talking stage' or getting to know someone is soul destroying
    • having one night stands and hook ups seems fun at the end but leaves you feeling empty and unfulfilled
    • friendships - feeling old friendships gradually fade
  • family
    • seeing my parents getting older and feeling guilty about not spending enough time with them
    • difficult relationship with toxic sibling
jan 14 2025 ∞
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