this specific section is to talk about my systemhood. yes, i am professionally diagnosed, no, i do not show strangers my medical records.

• my systemhood is a personal matter that has nothing to do with you until it affects you. this will often be the case as i'm our primary fronter and don't leave frequently.
  • to classify it as "affecting you" i'd say it only applies to friends who end up knowing, meeting, and speaking to my headmates.
• for obvious reasons, it's uncomfortable to be treated like a circus act regarding it, and alienating me doesn't make me or anyone else happier.
• my headmates don't owe you their presence as "proof" of their existence. we've been in therapy for years to learn to manage things as we do now.
• and finally, for christ's sake just be fucking normal about it. it really isn't hard and i'm so tired of dealing with people who are going to make it a massive deal.

for friends and other people who may know us, here's a shortform list of my headmates who are "common" fronters.

• klefki / soda
  • they/mew, ex-host
• dove / dave
  • she/he, co-host
• roxy / roxanne
  • she/any, caretaker